And for that, because the laws
in all these areas are so different and because they change all the time, I
really do think that if you want to have a contract then you need to go to a lawyer who is a family lawyer, who is also
really familiar with lesbian and gay and bisexual and transgender law, who will understand what the issues are and what you might need to put into this agreement, and who can also tell you when you may or may not
hold up in court and what the risks and the benefits are.
Granted, most of the things you
hold court for revolve around money, which ends
up being repetative and
in the end your choices don't
really matter.