NO CELL PHONE RULE: Put your electronics down and
really listen to your kids even if they're being assholes.
These may be the only pauses in a busy day when you have a chance to chat with and
really listen to your kids.
Schedule it once a month, grab some take - away and
really listen to your kids.
«It's a wonderful time for parents to
really listen to their kids — to hear about their hopes, their values, their expectations for college, and to learn what kind of adults they imagine they'll be,» Weissbourd says.
These tips on how to
really listen to your kids help parents understand how to validate and empathize without needing to lecture or provide advice.
Not exact matches
«President Trump, I think that it is
really important that you
listen to us because we are your constituents, you are working for us and
kids are dead,» Sofie Whitney, a survivor of last week's shooting, said on CNN's «The Lead» with Jake Tapper.
Hi Sam, I
listened to your podcast with Noah Kagen (twice:p) and one thing
really stuck out was you saying all these
kids who has only seen a bull market might be caught holding too little when the stump hits.
Holiness for me was found in the mess and labour of giving birth, in birthday parties and community pools, in the battling sweetness of breastfeeding, in the repetition of cleaning, in the step of faith it took
to go back
to church again, in the hours of chatting that have
to precede the real heart -
to - heart talks, in the yelling at my
kids sometimes, in the crying in restaurants with broken hearted friends, in the uncomfortable silences at our bible study when we're all weighing whether or not
to say what we
really think, in the arguments inherent
to staying in love with each other, in the unwelcome number on the scale, in the sounding out of vowels during bedtime book reading, in the dust and stink and heat of a tent city in Port au Prince, in the beauty of a soccer game in the Haitian dust, in the
listening to someone else's story, in the telling of my own brokenness, in the repentance, in the secret telling and the secret keeping, in the suffering and the mourning, in the late nights tending sick babies, in confronting fears, in the all of a life.
You have more time on sunday
to play with your
kids and go
to the park or go
to a market or work at the food pantry — all kinds of things you can do instead of keeping your mind weak and talking
to make - believe people in your head and
listening to really boring music.
I'm getting
really hyped for these fights time
to listen to some 6xn9 or whatever his name is the
kids listen to now.
If you're sitting there thinking, «My
kids don't
really seem
to listen to me; they just tune me out,» or if you're even wondering if your parenting style is working very well at all, start by asking yourself, «Is what I'm doing with my family effective?
Are we
really listening to what are
kids are trying
to tell us?
It puts
kids in
really difficult positions if they want
to or have
to take sides, or
listen to negative things said about one of their parents.
How you decide
to bring up your baby is your choice and it is totally fine
to listen and respect how others raise their
kids but if you
really want
to do something a certain way then be confident in your decision, own it and don't let anyone make you feel bad for your decision.
But love prevails and what I
really love is how much HE loves his music right now and I could
listen to this
kid's passion all day.
If you want
to get
really sly, you can even quickly purchase these goodies while the
kid is off
listening to music in the audio section.
Kids really do know how
to heal from their emotional hurts — if we can be there
to listen and support them through the process.
And so, I think it's
really important
to listen to the people who are involved in that relationship when you make a change and so if the
kid says keep on, that's what we are doing and that's what we are doing.
The
kids aren't
listening to you, the baby won't stop crying and it would be
really,
really nice if someone would help you out.
I will try
really hard
to listen if the
kids let me.
From my experience,
kids really love Savasana and will be especially quiet and still if they know a foot rub is coming, or are
listening to a favorite song or story.
Constantly
to be aware of what I say
to them, what I want them
to do and also just
to really listen to what they are saying; I've worked with
kids for over 15 years and what I have found is that
kids know what they want and who they are better than any adult, we can learn a lot from them if we just
listen and follow in their footsteps.
This is no daringly outrageous,
Kid A-esque «progressive» music that nobody
really enjoys
listening to.
But
kids, especially in kindergarten and first grade,
really need
to play, so every once in a while, I'd pick up a puppet just
to make things more interesting than the
kids just
listening to me all day.»
«
Kids will
really listen to elders when there are specific, important steps
to putting something together,» she says.
So it was
really a rebranding of everything that just made such a difference
to the way
kids did things and
listened and engaged with the curriculum
really.
Unlike in the corporate world, where businesses spend tens of millions researching what their consumers
really want, when it comes
to how we structure and organize our
kids» education, we generally don't make the slightest attempt
to listen to, or even care, what students think about how they are taught.
«I think that's
really important for
kids to know that they have a supportive group of peers — and an adult — that will
listen,» says Davis.
But who
listens -
really listens —
to what
kids have
to say?
All it
really takes is one adult not
listening to make a
kid feel like nobody cares.
Student voice is only useful if it exists in an environment that's willing
to listen [because] so often nothing happens
to the voice of
kids because no one is
really listening.
I remember...
listening to the
kids talk on the school bus on the way home from school... and
really being interested in what the 3rd graders were doing (I was in Kindergarten)... they were learning
to multiply!
Don't we
really want our
kids to share,
listen, cooperate, be thankful and respectful because these behaviours will help them gain friends and get along better with others (not
to mention make parenting easier!)?
I'd seen this film a long time ago but when I saw it again this time, I had a much better appreciation of the Aboriginal way of being and the thing that
really struck me in this film was there was a section of the film where they were going
to do this aeroplane song and dance corroboree and they were getting ready for it and you know there are all these Elders and you know very wise and respected Elders you know making their costumes they were gonna wear, talking about how it was gonna be and in amongst all these people there's little children you know of one 1 or 2 or 3 years old who were just crawling around and you know watching and
listening, trying on their head - dresses and they were completely welcomed into that adult community, there was no sense of, you know this is grown up business, you
kids go off and play which is very much the western model.
When
kids talk back, are fresh, or sassy with us, it's difficult
to keep cool and
really listen.
We try
to take time once a week
to spend time together without the
kids, we usually go
to Starbucks and have coffee and just talk, and
really listen.
The other is
really for older
kids — when they're ready
to listen to (or read
to themselves) chapter books.