Instead of getting defensive, you'll be able to
really listen to other people — and moreover, other people will be able to really listen to you.»
This confirms that you were
really listening to the other person, rather than your internal dialog («monkey mind»).
So know your weaknesses, and make a conscious decision to
really listen to the other person.
Stay in the moment and
really listen to the other person, get to know them and enjoy yourself.
In this process (which you can find online and, even better, an IMAGO therapist to teach you) you learn how to
really listen to the other person, as if you have crossed a bridge into their world and can see it from their eyes.
Not exact matches
Not only does doing so make the
other person more comfortable — and therefore more likely
to open up — but it also proves that you've been
listening and have
really heard what they've been telling you.
A key part of active
listening is
really absorbing what the
other person is trying
to say.
«Being
listened to, first of all, is a
really key thing [for young
people] and of course we can all play a role in that: as parents, as friends, as uncles, aunts, teachers and
other professionals.
Real Christians Hate Religion... Real Christians Hate Hypocrites... Real Christians should be more like Christ... How could you claim
to be a Christian if you don't even know your Christ... The reason why doomed
people would never understand Christ is because they never tried
to search for the Truth... They only
listen to such rubbish things rather than the Truth... Read and do more and Talk less... It doesn't take a genius
to know that Someone created you rather than you coming
to life with just atoms randomly hitting each
other... If you're
really smart, think about it... Stop the non-sense talk about God and Science and find it out for yourself...
«Don't think that this blog and
others are up here by accident, if you
really want
to do something then write congress, tell our leaders that they had better start
listening to the majority of the
people»
For pastors and churches, this means encouraging loving, open - minded dialogue not only within your congregation, but with
other congregations as well... For all of us, productive dialog means reaching out
to people whose views and experiences are different from our own and having the patience
to really listen to them with a goal of better understanding them and their worldviews.»
I think that some
people are
really deluded or pro wenger biased, how can you dare compare Song and arteta and flamini?Song has the stature and physicality of a DM, arteta is a small weak slow guy, flamini the same with ultra agressivity.Wenger is a man who like his routine, like an autist, he needs
to do the same thing over and over and will not feel well if he has
to do somthing else.He will not
listen to advices either and he tells himself «I am an educated man, i know what
to do and I don t need advices from
others peoples».
In
other news, our team seems
to be rounding nicely into form, with a productive off - season and several new additions already settling in, there seems
to be a renewed sense of confidence in the air... our well - oiled machine has conducted business again early this year, so we can just sit back, kick our feet up and watch all those
other suckers scramble
to make panic moves in the 11th hour... of course, we need
to tie up a few loose ends but our team of savvy negotiators, under the tutelage of our faithful leader, will perform their usual magic with ample time
to spare... I have
to laugh when I look around the soccer world and see all those teams look upon us with envy and scorn as they struggle
to mimic our seemingly infallible business model... thank goodness the powers that be had the foresight and fortitude
to resist the temptations of the modern football era... instead of
listening to all the experts and simply taking the easy way out by making the necessary improvements on the field and in the front office, we chose the path never traveled... we are truly pioneers in our field... sometimes you just have
to have faith in the
people that have always conducted themselves in a respectful and honest fashion... most fans aren't so fortunate, they will never know what it's like
to follow a team that treats everyone in and around the club as if they were an extended member of the family... all for one I say... so when you wake up this morning, please try not
to gloat when you see rival fans pacing back and forth waiting for their respective teams
to pull the usual panic buys, just say nothing and be thankful that it isn't you... like I've always said, this is why you stay the course... this is when the real benefits of having someone in charge for over 2 decades
really pays off... have a great day fellow Gunners
My biggest hope will be for
people to just
listen,
really listen to people's experiences, and use it
to enhance their own understanding and
to help them help
others experiencing baby loss in the future.
«It was
really the more intricate, social interactions, like
listening to other people's jokes or that they're more committed
to pumping during the day than
to working that had a stronger impact on women's decision
to continue, especially exclusive breastfeeding, than these official support mechanisms.»
It's easier being at private school [where one is free from government regulations and reimbursement] and it worked
really well, but it was hard
to get
other people to listen and believe what we were doing wasn't just a boutique thing.
Asked why he was thought Rice would be a better representative than Blakeman on issues related
to Israel and
other international conflicts, Schumer said: «I'm not going
to say anything negative about the opponent... But I know Kathleen and I know that she will be a voice that
people really listen to.
The two young men had
listened to Mario's speech as it began
to come together, «and when you work in government... you go through such highs and lows together that you
really bond or you wind up very distant from the
other person, because you
really get
to see a
person's character,» Andrew Cuomo said.
I'm going
to talk
to anybody who will
listen to me, but hopefully, we'll find some of the few — five or six
people that we
really need
to turn over on the
other side.
«The only thing that we did that was
really smart was actually
listen to these
people, like Zephyr and
others,» he said.
We have, I mean, I marvel on a daily basis, I
really do, at my iPhone and all the different — I mean, I watch television on it; I play Scrabble on it with
people in
other parts of the country; I
listen to satellite radio through the iPhone.
Being out there in the world and
really seeing,
listening, and hearing about
other people's lives will uncover issues that you didn't realize mattered
to you.
im not against low carb at all, keto or original atkins are not my favorite ways
to approach it, but Im very much in favor of certain types of low carb diets, particularly higher protein, diets with moderate carb restriction... i use low carb, hi - protein for contest prep myself... unfortunately, what pervades much of the low carb world still today, is this belief that calories do nt matter or calories do nt count or what you alluded
to, that you can have a calorie deficit and not lose fat... whats
really happening is that low carb / higher protein can be a very good way
to automatically control appetite and calorie intake, and is also often important for some
peoples health given their metabolic status (not very carb tolerant, etc)... its also unfortunate that many in the low carb community are among the ones
to suggest that exercise is a waste of time, etc etc, which is also not true and does great disservice
to many who
listen... low carb does nt work due
to some voodoo or because the law of thermodynamics does nt apply... it works mainly because it controls calories and for some
people, helps them achieve calorie deficit better than
other diets... when folks show up here and suggest «i was in a calorie deficit but wasnt losing» or «exercise does nt work» thats when we cant help but grimace... or chuckle...
Again, that's kind of where — where I
listened to Jeff Bland and
other — uh —
other people like him;
really made a big difference in my education.
I want
to be in a relationship that i can always count on the
other person and not
to dwell on what is not gonna make it works because all i know is that, you can always find good in everybody, if only you can give them a chance, benefit of doubt.but sometimes
people disappoint you sometimes they surprise you but you never
really get
to know them until you
listen to what's in their heart»...
Especially on a chatline, pay attention and
really listen to what the
other person is saying.
Hi I'm juan i love anime, video games, cars and four wheeling I'm
really respectful
person I'm shy at first and i am sensitive
other then that I'm a pretty cool guy my hobbies i collected monster can and caps and i like
to fix cars i love
to listen to bands like bvb, bring me the horizon, suicide...
I remember feeling like I was sharing stuff on my films that I thought might be interesting
to some
people, and I've heard some
people say that it was, but I don't
really ever
listen to them on
other films myself and I never
listen to my own.
I also tell them that
people who
really listen — make eye contact, offer empathy, refrain from cutting
others off — are easy
to like and respect.
The
other thing I want
to point
people to is you've got a great blog at thecreativepenn.com, and also, Jo's podcast I
listen to every week, and it's
really one of the very best ways of getting
to know what's going on in the publishing industry.
Will definitely look into this,
really want
to get into podcasting this year so love
listening to what
other people are doing Thanks!
[
Other readers may like
to know that all this information was available
to Richard before the airing of his programme: since Richard is still encouraging you
to go and
listen to it, you might like
to ask yourselves how balanced it
really is in the light of the above responses from the
people who were actually there.]
You can only
really tell by
listening to other people.
One
other point I'd add that goes with limiting your time with
people and
listening is
to try
really hard
to shut down the internal dialogue while you're actively
listening.
So often,
people pretend as if they're
listening, but they're
really just waiting for the
other person to stop talking.
When we create opportunities for children
to work in groups, small groups, particularly, they are
really helpful when children can figure out how
to read
other people, how
to figure out what
to do next, how
to take your turn, how
to wait for somebody else, how
to listen to somebody else.
Sally's goals for counseling or mediation sessions are
to create a setting where
people have an opportunity
to really listen to each
other,
to be fully heard, and
to direct the client's attention towards making workable plans for the future.
«How
people interact and their ability
to listen to each
other and take each
other's perspective can
really influence the sex that they have.»
«
Really listen to what the
other person is saying and repeat back what you've heard
to validate their opinions,» he suggests.