The church, into which one is born (like the medieval Catholic Church), is distinguished
by an ethic of conservation and compromise in its relationship with the surrounding society; the sect, which one must join as an adult (like the Anabaptists),
rejects the surrounding society and has an ethic of rigor, perfection and transformation; the mystic is primarily a subjectively
religious person who is not linked to any particular
religious body (or, if linked to one, does not find it very important).
Second, until very recently many gay
people spent their adolescences and even adult years hiding their sexual orientation out of fear of being judged and
rejected by their friends, families, or
religious communities because they are gay or lesbian.