Every one of us has been given, by God, the ability to recognize
truth (Common
Grace)
and if
truth is
rejected it is a decision not an ignorant accident.
If a couple realise they started their marriage on a poor basis, it does not follow thatthey can
reject their marriage vow; it should lead them to seek the
grace to ground their relationship in the real freedom of the
truth and goodness of their being, lived for God
and for each other.