«These essays, spanning twenty years of Bowlby's speaking about the forming and breaking of
relationships of affection, are clear and systematic... They make an excellent introduction to his thought.»
Many of us chose
relationships of affection and care that will never become loving because they feel safer.
Ross Snyder declares: «A marriage is not just a personal
relationship of affection between two people; it is a joint venture into a life of growth.»
Not exact matches
That's why, Dunbar continued, people who are in love typically have four other intimate
relationships, since they're already investing a lot
of time and effort in the object
of their
affection.
It often seems as the «share» the details
of this
relationship that Jesus is more like a child's imaginary friend who is always on their side when any conflict occurs with others rather than the Jesus who loved people enough to tell them, without accusing or withdrawing
affection, the hard truths they needed to know to encourge them to make more meaningful choices.
It is instructive to see how deeply Gregory intuited much
of the interpersonal analysis that was later to be developed in the modern behaviorist tradition
of vector analysis by G. Homans, R. Carson, T. Leary, J. Thibaut, and H. Kelley.17 According to this modern behaviorist analysis, human interaction patterns can be graphed on the vectors
of two poles: a horizontal emotive axis that registers resistance versus
affection, and a vertical pole that registers superordination and subordination, or relative power or influence in
relationships.
The
relationship is not one
of affection but one
of necessity and
of obedience.
The exceptional fidelity, self - sacrifice and
affection, as well as the pain, grief and sorrow and the deep spiritual response to the suffering and bereavement that is being expressed, is a sign to the churches
of the presence
of the Spirit
of love in these
relationships.
If consent and
affection are the only criteria for marriage, then any kind
of volitional
relationship qualifies as a marriage, be it polyamorous, polygamous, «monogamish,» or something else.
If consent and
affection are the only criteria for marriage, then any kind
of volitional
relationship qualifies as a marriage, be it polyamorous, polygamous, ``
Attitudes about sexuality, ways
of expressing
affection, and rules about personal
relationships are all learned at home to some extent.
Asking hard questions or pointed questions is much more effective when they arise out
of a
relationship of trust and
affection.
The romantic or idealistic love between a teenage boy and girl (frequently still to be found even in our modern sensualised world) may also be accompanied by a desire to show bodily
affection - a desire filled with a tenderness and respect that operate as a curb, not only on lust if it seeks to assert itself, but also on bodily expressions
of love which would not be true to the real existential
relationship between the couple.
In this
relationship we find the cadres
of the early Christian Church forming again in a natural bond
of mutual membering and warm
affection, and the way
of perfection comes to seem what it is — that which is more right and more fulfilling, and not more burdensome.
Most consensual incestual
relationships between siblings is the result
of some form
of childhood trauma, likely shared abuse by an adult through childhood, or severe repression and lack
of socialization, and as such it is likely that they turned to one another for comfort and
affection, which turned sexual as puberty approached.
When the idealized bridegroom found his bride the «fairest among women» and yet, in her control
of his
affections, «terrible as an army with banners,» the
relationship of marriage was plainly escaping its old tribal restrictions, the family was becoming more plastic, and the trail was being blazed from polygamy to monogamy.
It is implicit in the promulgation
of the creation narrative to the masses themselves, in the
relationship for instance between God and Man before the disobedience
of sin - the «walking with God in the afternoon air», a simple beautiful intimation
of affection and mutual communion.
Against scholars who argue that friendship as we understand it does not exist prior to, say, the Renaissance, he contends that an «abiding image
of friendship as an intimate
relationship predicated on mutual
affection and commitment» has persisted from ancient times to our own.
Marriage is meant to be an earthly picture
of Christ and the Church, a
relationship that points to the love and
affection between Jesus and His people.
Allowing the child to initiate
affection like hugs or kisses first will, in time, help to reestablish a
relationship of trust.
This same principle also applies in your personal
relationship, with closer ties being achieved through the demonstration
of affection and care for your partner when you are cooking their favourite meal and then share it with them.
Most important is that the cat receives the same amount
of affection and care as always and the baby grows up with a respect for kitty that will foster a safe and loving
relationship.
So, for example, alienation
of affections — a type
of heart balm tort — allows a married person to sue a third - party paramour for damaging the
relationship.
Some people want to maintain the flame
of passion while others want
relationship based on loyalty and
affection.
Marriage without sex and physical
affection is nothing more than a contractually - binding friendship that absent
of an equal share
of housework and income is a lopsided agreement, always favoring the party who has backed out
of the sexual and physical
affection aspect
of the
relationship (barring reasons such as a failure to maintain physical appearance, substance abuse, or unwarranted infidelity).
Rather than assuming that sleeping arrangement produces a particular «type» person it is probably more accurate to think
of sleeping arrangements as part
of a larger system
of affection and that it is altogether this larger system
of attachment
relationships, interacting with the child's own special characteristics that produces adult characteristics.
In their lifetime, how you connect with them — how you communicate, share
affection, help them learn to reflect on their emotions and understand the importance
of relationships — will shape the structure
of their brain, model how they have
relationships with others in the future, and nurture their developing mind.
Michigan: Custody is awarded based on the best interests
of the child, based on the following factors: moral character and prudence
of the parents; physical, emotional, mental, religious and social needs
of the child; capability and desire
of each parent to meet the child's emotional, educational, and other needs; preference
of the child, if the child is
of sufficient age and maturity; the love and
affection and other emotional ties existing between the child and each parent; the length
of time the child has lived in a stable, satisfactory environment and the desirability
of maintaining continuity; the desire and ability
of each parent to allow an open and loving frequent
relationship between the child and other parent; the child's adjustment to his / her home, school, and community; the mental and physical health
of all parties; permanence
of the family unit
of the proposed custodial home; any evidence
of domestic violence; and other factors.
Expression
of affection between parents is also important because it teaches a child what normal loving behavior between adults is and helps them to be well adjusted in their adult
relationships as well.
Less than a year into de Blasio's tenure, he and Cardinal Timothy Dolan, two
of New York's most powerful figures, have found much to gain from each other, forging an unexpectedly useful
relationship that so far seems blessed by fortuitous timing and ostensibly genuine
affection.
And the family ties and bonds
of affection that unite our two countries mean that there will always be a special
relationship between us.
Half
of the women said they had acquiesced to unwelcome sexual encounters because they wanted to feel accepted, to receive
affection or because they thought they were obliged to perform sexually in a
relationship.
Sharing
affection, thinking positively and with gratitude about our partner's qualities, engaging in shared activities and being happy independently
of the
relationship may all be important features
of an intensely loving
relationship.
Dogs» and other mammals» responses to and offerings
of displays
of affection, which are so unlike an autistic person's
relationship to other people, completely undermine the model proposed in the article for interspecies understanding.
Couples were encouraged through a series
of lectures and exercises to approach their
relationships with more compassion and empathy by doing things like listening as a friend, practicing random acts
of kindness and
affection, and using the language
of acceptance.
Touch is linked with feelings
of safety, trust, and support, and individuals who receive more physical
affection report feeling more positively about their
relationship and their partner.
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The key to true
relationship happiness is to remember that both
of these forms are equally valid ways to show love and equally important for long - term
affection.
You enjoy physical contact,
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relationship.
They also shy away from public displays
of affection early in a
relationship so keep your hands to yourself.
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In this kind
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affection are not a factor.
By comparing trends inside the rituals
of the
relationship status, public displays
of affection and photographs on Facebook this paper examines how they can impact a
relationship in the offline world by discussing the extent to which the design and features
of the site can impact the emotional repertoire
of its users.