It's the quality of the friendship that matters most in
repairing the relationship when things go wrong.
One of the most important tools every couple needs is to have a way to
repair the relationship when it slips off tracks, which it inevitably will do.
Not exact matches
At the same time, marriages and families have become essentially emotional and egalitarian
relationships rather than institutional and hierarchical ones, Thus,
when marriage and family fail to satisfy,
when they do not make all members feel «happy» and «fulfilled,» then these arrangements begin to dissolve, or at least to be regarded as needing
repair.
These are the dispositions and practices that keep our
relationships in good working order and help to
repair them
when they break.
In the light of James's discussion of the works of wisdom, we have good reason to think that our desires are being rightly shaped and ordered if our
relationships with our brothers and sisters are in good working order, and if we are eager and able to
repair them
when they suffer damage.
I often wish my mom and I could go back and stop the tears in our
relationship when the damage was still minimal and easier to
repair.
When things do go wrong, we want them to find a way to
repair the damage they've done to their
relationship.
«
When it is a parent who has been the maltreating adult, the best thing we can do is to help
repair that
relationship with that parent and turn that abusive or neglectful
relationship into a more nurturing, stable and protecting
relationship,» Shonkoff said.
When your child hurts her sister's feelings, you help her find a way to make up, to
repair the rift she's created in the
relationship.
The parent child
relationship is an important one, and
when a child avoids one parent it can be difficult to
repair.
In fact,
when you acknowledge that you messed up, and apologize, and work to
repair the
relationship, your child learns some of the most important lessons in life.
When one young brother resorted to hitting another, I used a calm - down corner (also known as time - in) to get him calm, then explained that hitting was unacceptable and asked him how he planned to
repair the
relationship with his brother.
In short: How you respond to your child's expressed needs
when you make a mistake makes a big difference in what they're learning about with the give and take, and
repair, of
relationships.
Others argue that firms should invest in satisfying customers and
repairing broken
relationships when times are better because they can afford to do so.
So I'm interested in the processes that occur
when infrastructure projects are undertaken... what I'm very interested in is the
relationship between practitioners who understand engineering and have trained on - site to, say,
repair bridges or
repair aqueducts and learned people, people with university training....
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Repair — When a relationship becomes damaged empower yourself to repa
Repair —
When a
relationship becomes damaged empower yourself to
repairrepair it.
SYNOPSIS: In the Old West, former Civil War - veteran John Henry returns to his frontier hometown where he must
repair a fractious
relationship with his Reverend father, and face the demons of his past
when a -LSB-...]
When Britta (Gillian Jacobs) drunk dials Jeff (Joel McHale) things get awkward between them and Jeff attempts to
repair their
relationship.
Director: John McTiernan Cast: Bruce Willis, Alan Rickman, Bonnie Bedelia, Reginald Vel Johnson, Alexander Godunov, William Arterton Plot: A cop goes to visit his wife, in order to
repair a dying
relationship,
when she and a building full of Christmas partyers are taken hostage by a dangerous group of terrorists.
Instead of being interested in
repairing — or at least addressing — his superficial
relationship with Susie, Tony spends his time reminiscing over a time
when life felt like a series of fantastic promises
when in fact, we learn, it's nothing but a series of holding pens.
Say «I am sorry»
when you make a mistake, and
repair relationships every time you have the opportunity.
When the mother who abandoned her returns, Eva must decide if they can
repair their
relationship.
Trying to come to an agreement on the right result or
repair broken
relationships is pointless
when you just need to come up with a number.
When you want to preserve or
repair the underlying
relationship.
In fact, they can result in problems, hurts, and even the end of the dance (and, therefore, deserve thorough coverage in coming articles about how to
repair when relationships are not working as we'd hoped).
Meaning,
when there is conflict (which is inevitable in
relationships) and one partner attempts to
repair, the other partner responds positively to it (maybe not the first time) and therefore the
repair attempt becomes successful.
When parents react in a way that creates tension, anger or hurt feelings, they can
repair any damage to the parent - child
relationship by taking time to reconnect and apologize later
As an LDS therapist, I understand the unique importance of familial
relationships and the significant relief that comes
when these
relationships are
repaired.»
This reasoning enables them to feel empathy and appropriate guilt
when they have hurt others and to
repair relationships.
When people begin a marriage counseling therapy, they assume it is their
relationship that is under examination and needs to be
repaired.
By learning how to
repair your interactions
when negativity engulfs you, you can dramatically improve the effectiveness of your problem solving and develop a more positive perspective of each other and your
relationship.
In turn,
when a couple's
relationship bank account is flush, the partner on the receiving end of a
repair attempt is more likely to recognize it as such, and respond in kind.
When you focus on affection, togetherness, genuine feelings of caring, physical touch, and heart - felt appreciation towards your partner, almost any
relationship repair is possible.
Building
repair into the
relationship will help
when the communication slips into the «Oops Moments».
When infidelity occurs it is usually a red flag that professional and skilled help is needed in order to heal and
repair the
relationship.
When things go wrong between you and a child, whether small or more important, the chance to
repair and reconnect allows the child to feel safe and secure in their
relationship with you and in themselves.
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When things go wrong between parents and carers and a child, the most important thing to do is to reconnect and
repair the
relationship.
We can't always avoid conflict, we are not perfect, so
when couples make mistakes, hurt one another, or have fights, and it is essential to have ways to
repair the
relationship.
When bids fail, as they inevitably do in all
relationships, seek to
repair.
We build and maintain
relationships; by connecting, listening and cooperating — and
when issues arise, we work to resolve and
repair the
relationship.
When we show children
relationships can be
repaired we are giving them a very special gift.
Your
relationship is more likely to last if you practice at
repairing hurts and reconnecting
when there's distance.
can lend itself to robust healing and
repair for our patients, especially
when those prickly (and plentiful) moments arise in the therapy
relationship.
My point here is that in healthy
relationships both partners tend to start doing what they can to
repair any damage done
when there is conflict or upset.
However,
when you both are well - informed, you are able to make decisions, and often
repair a portion of the
relationship that allows you to go forward.
All
relationships have their challenges, and most issues,
when confronted in a healthy manner, can be
repaired.
In many cases, it is not the lost desire to maintain healthy
relationships that prevents the regular practice of
repair work, but rather busy schedules, frustration in failed past attempts, or the uncertainty of how to go about truly
repairing a break in healthy attachment patterns
when conflicts emerge.
We find, in all our studies of helping couples
repair their
relationship, that adult lovers simply have NO idea about the alarm and pain that they deliver
when they simply shut their lover out and become unreachable.
How the receiver views her partner is critical
when that partner makes attempts to
repair the
relationship.