Someone with more growth beliefs is more likely to work with their partner to understand and fix the problem because they believe that damage can be
repaired after an argument.
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Not exact matches
Repair As with any relationship, after a good argument or scuffle, you want to work to repair the relatio
Repair As with any relationship,
after a good
argument or scuffle, you want to work to
repair the relatio
repair the relationship.
A group of 9th graders in San Francisco,
after a verbal altercation during an Algebra group project, sits down later to share how the
argument caused them harm and decide how to
repair the damage inflicted so the group can be productive the next time they work together.
One teacher said that his first attempt at
repairing relations
after a fight between students ended with the
argument spreading to both sets of the students» parents.
Would you rather go to bed resentful, or would you prefer cuddling with your partner
after repairing an
argument?
And when you can make
repair attempts, like apologizing
after an
argument, it helps to decrease tension and make you feel more connected to your partner.
What occurs can be emotional distance and negative feelings, contempt, defensiveness, conflicts that escalate, confusion and the inability to reconnect and
repair after a dispute or
argument.
I have no idea what this will look like in relationships because all couples need to make
repair attempts at some point... because marriage, right?!? I imagine a
repair attempt
after an
argument would look something like this, «Thank you for loving me even when I lose my temper and escalate things more than I should have.