This dysfunctional way of framing the wedding led «blue brides» to
report identity confusion (e.g., «I don't know what it means to be a wife») and relational uncertainty (e.g., «Who are we as a couple?»)
Despite the general
confusion during the massacre and for some time later, the
identity of the two shooters became available almost immediately, presumably from
reports by students streaming out of the school and being rapidly interviewed by police.