The researchers who wrote the article set out to test the theory: Does being vocal in
response to pain actually help one endure pain longer?
Not exact matches
Once the extraordinary intensity and longevity of grief's
pain is
actually witnessed, many people (including not a few grievers) simply refuse
to believe that an emotional
response of this magnitude could possibly be healthy, or be what grieving books, counselors, etc., are referring
to («They told me you'd cry, but not this much!»)
As for the reflux and settling issue, I've done a piece that should hopefully give you comfort regarding simply being there even if it doesn't help settle in the moment: http://evolutionaryparenting.com/my-baby-cries-too/ You can read in detail, but the stress
response associated with
pain or psychological stress which we assume
to be present when crying is
actually blunted when a child is being held and comforted, even if the crying doesn't stop.
As bad as being peeved feels, it's
actually a protective
response to what usually starts out as fear or
pain, explains Veronica Rojas, MD, a psychiatrist and co-founder of the Mindfulness Forum of Ridgewood in Ridgewood, N.J.. Before you can even make sense of a threat, your amygdala, the almond - shaped emotion center of the brain, triggers a release of adrenaline and other stress hormones.
Pain actually causes the brain
to fire off a stress
response that, over time, makes nerves more and more sensitive — and thus better able
to telegraph intense
pain to you.