They now get fragrance items (i've been buyin on ebay lately because things are so expensive and I am not getting bonuses very often at work), maybe a piece
of jewelry if I can afford it, a framed picture, something for their bulletin board / room, sometimes neat pens / pencils / paper pads and art supplies, DVDs, games, little scrapbook things that I make for them, and we try to give them one
of the little treasure items that belonged to either my husband's parents or my grandparents (handing them down something that has sentimental value - sometimes it's an odd thing like a slide
rule for my son, a
crocheted doily for my daughter, etc...).