For slightly - less - than - big nights out, I always wear a
deep garnet mens sleeveless textured T with rolled - up leather black or baggy tan suede or cobalt leather pants and the
same basket woven shoes, or my usual flat black ankle boots, and a heavy Nepali silver necklace that is so over the top (it's massive, with
turquoise and coral, carving in the silver, and goes all the way down to my navel) that I adore, because it always breaks the ice when people ask me if they can touch it, and where it came from.