For sample Pregnancy 1, women who
saw midwives with appointment times of < 15 minutes had a median MADM score of 30, compared to a median MADM score of 23 among those who saw obstetricians, and 22 among women who saw family physicians during short appointments.
Not exact matches
She said: «A lot of the women we
see might actually come and not through the GP, they might have been referred through a
midwife or a house visitor and experience talking therapy which can help them
with their recovery.
I justified this uncharacteristic behavior, however,
with the fact that we had a prenatal the following day and I didn't want the
midwives to
see just how lackadaisical we really were
with housework.
I delivered my 10 lb 4 oz son vaginally, but I have no doubt that had I been
seeing an OB rather than a
midwife I would have wound up
with a CS.
He could
see that it was absurd and cruel to consider this a child protection issue, and after a gruelling eight - hour wait during which a compassionate, committed
midwife stayed
with the father at the hospital, granted him a temporary residence order so that he could go home
with his baby.
His young mind just thinks mommy / daddy is leaving... (IMO) After this fight we worked hard speaking
with midwives and more experienced parents (FTM) to make this solution which works for us: 8:00 pm dinner 8:30 pm bathtime atleast 30 mins worth of play 9:00 pm dry off and last drink (milk
with local honey (during teething we add chamomile per
midwife's suggestions) 9:10 pm complete blackout besides one light in kitchen to be able to
see bedtime storys and lullyby 9:30 pm he is out for the night.
I am an absolute advocate of home births and if you read my previous comments you will
see that I delivered all of my children at home,
WITH a skilled
midwife.
Throughout my pregnancy Michael and I had been
seeing just the one
midwife so we felt very relaxed and comfortable
with her and were looking forward to having her and my sister around for the birth at home.
When I brought up to my
midwife & my birthing assistants that we wanted to have a quiet birth
with as little talking as possible, they actually thought it was sort of funny —
seeing as they're all Bradley Method trained, they're already planning to do that anyhow.
If you are concerned about any one of these four dimensions, it is a good idea to speak
with your obstetrician or
midwife, and consider
seeing a mental health professional to determine the best course of action.
Because I
see that a birth
with a non nurse
midwife is way lower then both the cnm and MD. you say that the REAL number of deaths is higher
with a DEM but it is shoved into the md category.
With a mortality rate of almost 5x higher than hospital birth, this is not that far off the 6 - 8 times higher we
saw for the Oregon data collection, even though the Oregon group almost surely had significantly fewer criteria for risking mothers out (no criteria in some places, I'm sure) as well as lower qualifications for the
midwives as CPMs and DEMs.
When I switched from my
midwife to my doctor, I asked for my records from my birth
with my first son... that way, the doc could
see them and be watchful or whatever
with my 2nd son... what did the
midwife give me?
VBAC is really not something anyone has any business attempting outside of a hospital, but
with the language the
midwives use it's easy to
see why people could be fooled.
The refusal to
see a doctor (
with some women even refusing to
see a
midwife) can be explained as the inevitable result of regarding even the possibility of pregnancy complications as personal criticism, combined
with the inability to tolerate criticism of any kind.
I am still wracked
with guilt that I, a
midwife and a mother, could not
see what was happening to my baby boy.
If you decide to
see a
midwife, be sure to choose someone who is experienced
with twins and has admitting privileges at a hospital
with a level III neonatal nursery, in case of preterm delivery or other complications.
And, when we have a baby born very early, or
with a true issue, or even if we just need some advanced assessment because of something we have identified, I hope that someday we can be
seen as members of the care team, not «the rougue
midwives» who bring in «all those sick babies».
You will still have prenatal care appointments
with doctor or
midwife and potentially
see your doula.
The
midwives seek to create a bond
with the mother, in that way they will
see them as a friend who is there to help at any moment and to whom they can go when they feel they can not do it.
Indeed, homebirth
with an American homebirth
midwife is the most dangerous form of planned birth in the US (
See Homebirth kills babies, Homebirth
with a direct entry
midwife is th most dangerous form of planned birth, and Inexcusable homebirth death toll in Colorado keeps rising).
«I've
seen all natural births, necessary and IMO unnecessary C Sections, overuse of drugs, fantastic drs, awful ones (same
with midwives) and some inspiring stories.
Mom 2: I went to
see a
midwife, and I felt insanely comfortable
with her.
I agree
with you that there need to be uniform and stringent standards to be a
midwife and I
see no reason why a
midwife delivering a baby at home should have less education than a CNM.
It wasn't until I was admitted into the hospital and
saw my
midwife shrink away, the whole story about her having «a good relationship
with the hospital» was a lie.
In South Carolina, a woman intending to give birth at a birth center
with midwives are required to
see an OB twice, at 20 weeks and 35 weeks.
In their analysis, they appear to assume that the hospital deliveries
with a
midwife were planned that way, but I didn't
see any reference to that assumption or that fact (if the studies spelled that out).
Plus I'd
seen a family member who'd had 9 home births all handled extremely well by a
midwife,
with only one being transferred to the hospital, early in labor.
A separate scenario — but one that I also struggle
with — is when I
see moms desperately seeking
midwives in the final days or weeks of their pregnancy to take them on as a home birth patient just because that's what they want so.
Still, I was curious to
see if home birth could be an option for me
with my new
midwives.
And none of those things even come close to what it must feel like if you are home
with your laboring wife, and an incompetent
midwife and suddenly the
midwife starts cursing and freaking out, and you can
see from where you are standing something is wrong, the baby's feet are coming first, and too much blood, and your wife is screaming in agony and you can't remember how to dial 911.....
Certified Nurse
Midwives who attend home births do have six years of training (not sure about how many births they attend in those years) but the average non nurse
midwife will have minimal if any formal training and will not have
seen 500 births even
with years of practice.
I think part of the challenge is in communication and in
seeing doctors,
midwives, lay
midwives communicating
with each other.
I would have to disagree
with the assertion that going to
see one's OB /
midwife if the baby has decreased movement is unnecessary.
When this
midwife is some day able to
see with clear eyes what she has done, I can't imagine that she will be able to deal
with herself.
Where strict risk - out criteria are applied together
with strict transfer criteria, I imagine that a
midwife who specialises in homebirth will usually treat only the lowest of low - risk women and (hopefully)
see very few genuinely life threatening emergencies.
A local OB / Gyn I know has taken matters into her own hands and reached out to the local direct entry
midwives, offering to meet
with them and discuss their practices, when they would like to
see mothers transferred, and mothers that should be excluded from homebirth.
The first thing you need to do is
see your doctor or local
midwife, who can get you registered
with the maternity services in your local area.
Maternity services clearly operates
with some division between
Midwife's and doctors, to no benefit from what I have
seen.
You haven't
seen a perfectly low risk woman labor within reasonable limits
with no complications only to deliver a stillborn because the
midwife couldn't tell she was listening to the mother's heart rate, not the baby's.
Instead of jumping to make an appointment
with the first provider you
see in the yellow pages or who friends have recommended, schedule consultations
with both obstetricians and
midwives.
If all low risk women were being cared for by
midwives in out of hospital settings, we would
see better outcomes, healthier mamas and babies, and women would be able to tell their birth story
with confidence that they had control.
I'm 26 weeks pregnant atm and I am so terrified that I won't be able to bf my baby girl because of these stupid tubular breasts I've been cursed
with: (Ive spoken to my
midwife about it but all she said was that we just have to wait and
see what happens after birth.
Natural childbirth experts say they have
seen a modest increase in interest in natural childbirth following a recent film by actress Ricki Lake, who gave birth at home
with the help of a
midwife.
Please
see a professional, too many babies have had complications
with not being
seen (
midwife only).
This time I've been being
seen at a birth center by a nurse and their
midwives, but not sure we'll stick
with it because of the concerns
with out of hospital birthing.
I can't tell you how many times I baby wear one of my children, mention my
midwife, or (especially) nurse my toddler and someone asks me,
with an almost sly smile, «Hey, have you
seen Maggie Gyllenhaal in that Away We Go movie?»
If the doctor or
midwife can
see an embryo
with a beating heart and of the right size when 8 weeks pregnant (i.e next week), chances are very high that it will not be a miscarriage.
My
midwife suggested that i
saw someone that specific that deals
with this particular condition, I
saw someone which unfortunately I had to pay for who does «Bowen Technique» if you have the money to try this I'd highly recommend it.
This way the child would meet the
midwife,
see how they handle their Mom and be more comfortable
with a lot of the process already.