In my family, my wife's primary and
secondary love languages are quality time and acts of service.
He helps you communicate with your child in his or her primary and
secondary love languages.
His secondary love language is definitely physical touch — he's a back massager, hand holder, forehead kisser, etc..
Each one of us has one main love language and
a secondary love language: gifts, quality time, words of affirmation, acts of service (devotion), and physical touch (intimacy).
It's based on a book that describes how we all (apparently) have a primary and
secondary love language from these five: gifts, quality time, words of affirmation, acts of service, and physical touch.
s official assessment, I learned my primary love language is touch and
my secondary love language is quality time.
For example, if your spouse or child often asks for hugs and wants to cuddle or sit in your lap, you can bet that receiving touch is a primary or
secondary love language for them.
Chapman proposed that every individual has a primary and
secondary love language, and that each love language represents the avenue of emotional connection they prefer.