Beyond the obvious reality that to
seek to reduce a
relationship to it's purely sexual element whether hetero or homo is insulting... This comment is particularly silly since the same description of dominant verses submissive, giving verses receiving, applies equally well to
heterosexual sex.
As I said in the Times and will say again here, I do, however, believe that most members of our community — as well as the majority of
heterosexuals — can not and do not choose the gender of the persons with whom they
seek to have intimate
relationships because, unlike me, they are only attracted to one sex.