Sentences with phrase «self talk when»

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Teasdale points to a recent Harvard study which underscores the scale of the problem: People spend most of their time during conversations talking about their own viewpoints and tend to self - promote when meeting people for the first time.

Rinspeed essentially jammed the car with every tech feature the auto industry has been talking about this year, from self - driving tech to gesture - controlled displays that can tell you when the traffic light will turn green.

Author, self - made millionaire and personal finance expert, and David Bach breaks down when and how you should talk about money with your partner.

In Bored and Brilliant: How Spacing Out Can Unlock Your Most Productive and Creative Self (and a matching TED talk from last spring), Manoush Zomorodi writes (and talks) about how our creativity and brainstorming works better when we are more present in the moment and not so distracted by gadgets.

Human interactions — especially in the age of online shopping and self - service, when they are so few and far between — are what your customers will remember and what they'll talk about, perhaps very publicly.

It's hard not to hum Mission: Impossible's famous theme song when talking about Boeing's new smartphone, Black, which self - destructs if someone tampers with it.

Alex Alagappan, co-founder of Rimagine, a Toronto - based consulting company specializing in the Middle East and India, noticed how women use clothing as self - expression: «Since there is no differentiation or individuality in the outer clothing one wears, when women are amongst women, they are walking, talking fashion models.»

When it comes to good decision making, qualities like intelligence, patience, curiosity, and self - control get talked about all the time, but intellectual humility is less often mentioned.

When I used to do a lot of recruiting we used to call it «hanging yourself» because people who talk for long periods of time without seeking feedback are generally not self - aware or good at human interaction.

As we often like to highlight when talking about self - driving development programs, data can make all the difference.

Activation of this system when discussing the self suggests that self - disclosure, like other more traditionally recognized stimuli, may be inherently pleasurable — and that people may be motivated to talk about themselves more than other topics (no matter how interesting or important these non-self topics may be).

In the book, Kalanick highlights that Musk played coy when they talked about a potential partnership, but he later found out that self - driving cars were already a priority for Tesla.

Mr. Iovine, who reports to Eddy Cue, Apple's head of software and Internet services, has been leading aggressive talks to secure prominent album releases that will be exclusive to Apple, akin to what Beyoncé did when she released her self - titled album on iTunes in December 2013.

We basically have a conversation with ourselves all day long and when we slow down and listen, a huge part of that self talk is very critical and defeating.

The only voice I ever herd was my own; when I was a child I thought it was god but then I realized that I was talking to my self.

They tell us that when Gadamer writes, «I sought to ground the linguisticality of our orientation to the world in conversation,» he is saying we are linguistic to the bone and construct our world by talking about everything around us (a self - image with which we rest easy, says Kierkegaard).

its not really atheism or religion that I have a problem with, its the hate, control, and fear that goes along with it that I have a problem with, you say that those who are spiritual are into new agey, crystal ball, stuff, see that's what I'm talking about, you assume to know what something is about when you don't understand something you naturally fear it, your self righteous clouds you, don't you get that by being narrow minded in your view towards things, you really act no better than religious fundamentalists, being spiritual is a lot more than just the new agey, think positive all the time that you think it is, its about being aware of who you are?

And by the way, Buddhists aren't that much better when they start talking about mindfulness and awareness and emptiness and no - self.

Far too often, Christians talk about self - control as it relates to sex, but remain silent when it comes to self - control as it relates to justice.

In the post I linked, click on the inside this phrase: «I came to realize that I was self - delusioned when talking in my head to Jesus (see my post here).»

When you and I know our truths and practice them repeatedly through various forms of self - talk, we are better able to embody actions that point to the truths in our lives.

To talk of sin ceases to be mere mythology when the love of God meets man as a power which embraces and sustains him even in his fallen, self - assertive state.

Lummis found plenty of search committees that encountered candidates lacking that self - confidence («Several members on our committee voted against him because he would not make eye contact with us when he talked»).

I am wondering, when you find yourself not at peace with a fellow person, do you have implement self - talk to find a prospective of peace?

But on the other hand, when in talking about sin one talks only of such sins, it is so easily forgotten that in a way it may be all right, humanly speaking, with respect to all such things up to a certain point, and yet the whole life may be sin, the well - known kind of sin: glittering vices, willfulness, which either spiritlessly or impudently continues to be or wills to be unaware in what an infinitely deeper sense a human self is morally under obligation to God with respect to every most secret wish and thought, with respect to quickness in comprehending and readiness to follow every hint of God as to what His will is for this self.

So in the case of the immediate man when he is in despair it is impossible to represent him truly without a touch of the comic; it is, if I may say so, a clever trick to talk in this jargon about a self and about despair.

When immediacy is assumed to have self - reflection, despair is somewhat modified; there is somewhat more consciousness of the self, and therewith in turn of what despair is, and of the fact that one's condition is despair; there is some sense in it when such a man talks of being in despair: but the despair is essentially that of weakness, a passive experience; its form is, in despair at not wanting to be onesWhen immediacy is assumed to have self - reflection, despair is somewhat modified; there is somewhat more consciousness of the self, and therewith in turn of what despair is, and of the fact that one's condition is despair; there is some sense in it when such a man talks of being in despair: but the despair is essentially that of weakness, a passive experience; its form is, in despair at not wanting to be oneswhen such a man talks of being in despair: but the despair is essentially that of weakness, a passive experience; its form is, in despair at not wanting to be oneself.

Writes Dark, «It is only when we're blessed by a feeling of finitude that we can begin to perceive the holy, that sense of a whole before which our limited understanding is dwarfed... Only a twisted, unimaginative mind - set resists awe in favor of self - satisfied certainty... More humility might characterize our talk of God if we believe that the whole truth can never be entirely ours and that our attempts to nail God down are always well - intentioned human constructs at best and idols at worst.»

When one of the main political goals of democratic socialists is the workers» co-determination and self - control, how can we stand a God - talk based on the refusal of democratization and self - determination?

So it is self - consistent when it requires revelation, but it is not warranted in regarding Abraham as the father of faith and in talking about faith.

Second, the psychologist most frequently associated with Nietzsche is Freud, but Brooks isn't at all talking Freudian psychology when he tells us that «it is possible to achieve momentary harmony through creative work,» or that we don't secure «the good life through heroic self - analysis but through mundane, self - forgetting effort, and through everyday routines.»

But even they show that the contrary is the case, as Altizer himself demonstrates when he claims that he is talking about the absolute immanence or «presence - in - this - world» of the Word or Spirit, in consequence of the radical kenosis or self - emptying of the transcendent deity usually denoted by the word «God».

I have noticed something: when others see you living liberated, talking liberated, it will either drive them deeper into their self - imposed bondage where it is more secure and comfortable for them, or it will beckon them out of their bonds to enjoy their own freedom which is frightening at first but exhilarating in time.

Or to put it more strongly, what could still be said when to that believer much if not all such conventional talk seemed ill - founded, often highly self - centered, and lacking any serious religious value?

If a man in despair is as he thinks conscious of his despair, does not talk about it meaninglessly as of something which befell him (pretty much as when a man who suffers from vertigo talks with nervous self - deception about a weight upon his head or about its being like something falling upon him, etc., this weight and this pressure being in fact not something external but an inverse reflection from an inward experience), and if by himself and by himself only he would abolish the despair, then by all the labor he expends he is only laboring himself deeper into a deeper despair.

It may well be true that self - consciousness about standing on such shaky ground is the reason why the talk of a woman's «right» to abortion services has become an uncritical mantra, rising to a aggressive assertion when challenged, for this kind of feminist.

While Sidney B. Simon at the University of Massachusetts and his colleagues claim that their values - clarification approach «does not aim to instill any particular set of values,» they certainly reveal their ideological bias toward the autonomous, bourgeois, rationalistic self when they talk about «learning a process for selecting the best and rejecting the worst elements contained in the various value systems.

I wanted to do something a little more fun with my daughter and make a salad of items she loved and picked out her self, that way when it came time to eat it we could talk about how SHE made it and how yummy it was!

The same physiological response that happens when we are criticized by our boss or partner occurs during our negative self - talk.

This is an incredibly difficult question to answer for a variety of reasons, most importantly because over the years our once vaunted «beautiful» style of play has become a shadow of it's former self, only to be replaced by a less than stellar «plug and play» mentality where players play out of position and adjustments / substitutions are rarely forthcoming before the 75th minute... if you look at our current players, very few would make sense in the traditional Wengerian system... at present, we don't have the personnel to move the ball quickly from deep - lying position, efficient one touch midfielders that can make the necessary through balls or the disciplined and pacey forwards to stretch defences into wide positions, without the aid of the backs coming up into the final 3rd, so that we can attack the defensive lanes in the same clinical fashion we did years ago... on this current squad, we have only 1 central defender on staf, Mustafi, who seems to have any prowess in the offensive zone or who can even pass two zones through so that we can advance play quickly out of our own end (I have seen some inklings that suggest Holding might have some offensive qualities but too early to tell)... unfortunately Mustafi has a tendency to get himself in trouble when he gets overly aggressive on the ball... from our backs out wide, we've seen pace from the likes of Bellerin and Gibbs and the spirited albeit offensively stunted play of Monreal, but none of these players possess the skill - set required in the offensive zone for the new Wenger scheme which requires deft touches, timely runs to the baseline and consistent crossing, especially when Giroud was playing and his ratio of scored goals per clear chances was relatively low (better last year though)... obviously I like Bellerin's future prospects, as you can't teach pace, but I do worry that he regressed last season, which was obvious to Wenger because there was no way he would have used Ox as the right side wing - back so often knowing that Barcelona could come calling in the off - season, if he thought otherwise... as for our midfielders, not a single one, minus the more confident Xhaka I watched played for the Swiss national team a couple years ago, who truly makes sense under the traditional Wenger model... Ramsey holds onto the ball too long, gives the ball away cheaply far too often and abandons his defensive responsibilities on a regular basis (doesn't score enough recently to justify): that being said, I've always thought he does possess a little something special, unfortunately he thinks so too... Xhaka is a little too slow to ever boss the midfield and he tends to telegraph his one true strength, his long ball play: although I must admit he did get a bit better during some points in the latter part of last season... it always made me wonder why whenever he played with Coq Wenger always seemed to play Francis in a more advanced role on the pitch... as for Coq, he is way too reckless at the wrong times and has exhibited little offensive prowess yet finds himself in and around the box far too often... let's face it Wenger was ready to throw him in the trash heap when injuries forced him to use Francis and then he had the nerve to act like this was all part of a bigger Wenger constructed plan... he like Ramsey, Xhaka and Elneny don't offer the skills necessary to satisfy the quick transitory nature of our old offensive scheme or the stout defensive mindset needed to protect the defensive zone so that our offensive players can remain aggressive in the final third... on the front end, we have Ozil, a player of immense skill but stunted by his physical demeanor that tends to offend, the fact that he's been played out of position far too many times since arriving and that the players in front of him, minus Sanchez, make little to no sense considering what he has to offer (especially Giroud); just think about the quick counter-attack offence in Real or the space and protection he receives in the German National team's midfield, where teams couldn't afford to focus too heavily on one individual... this player was a passing «specialist» long before he arrived in North London, so only an arrogant or ignorant individual would try to reinvent the wheel and / or not surround such a talent with the necessary components... in regards to Ox, Walcott and Welbeck, although they all possess serious talents I see them in large part as headless chickens who are on the injury table too much, lack the necessary first - touch and / or lack the finishing flair to warrant their inclusion in a regular starting eleven; I would say that, of the 3, Ox showed the most upside once we went to a back 3, but even he became a bit too consumed by his pending contract talks before the season ended and that concerned me a bit... if I had to choose one of those 3 players to stay on it would be Ox due to his potential as a plausible alternative to Bellerin in that wing - back position should we continue to use that formation... in Sanchez, we get one of the most committed skill players we've seen on this squad for some years but that could all change soon, if it hasn't already of course... strangely enough, even he doesn't make sense given the constructs of the original Wenger offensive model because he holds onto the ball too long and he will give the ball up a little too often in the offensive zone... a fact that is largely forgotten due to his infectious energy and the fact that the numbers he has achieved seem to justify the means... finally, and in many ways most crucially, Giroud, there is nothing about this team or the offensive system that Wenger has traditionally employed that would even suggest such a player would make sense as a starter... too slow, too inefficient and way too easily dispossessed... once again, I think he has some special skills and, at times, has showed some world - class qualities but he's lack of mobility is an albatross around the necks of our offence... so when you ask who would be our best starting 11, I don't have a clue because of the 5 or 6 players that truly deserve a place in this side, 1 just arrived, 3 aren't under contract beyond 2018 and the other was just sold to Juve... man, this is theraputic because following this team is like an addiction to heroin without the benefits

seriously, the amount of self - belief it must take when your own fans are sh*t talking you and not getting behind you.

When we constantly talk about something in the negative, does it become a self - fulfilling prophesy?

How to Calm Down When Your Anger has Reached the Boiling Point When we're talking about parents calming down, we're talking about them «self - soothing.»

If I can stop myself from hurting / scaring my child or continually being on my child's back when they need direction, I won't be contributing to their negative self - talk.

When Noah was around six months old, I went to a talk on sleep given by a health professional, where I heard that by breastfeeding during the night I was doing it all wrong, that I should teach my baby to self - soothe.

This type of negative self - talk may decrease your teen's willingness to put in effort when faced with future challenges.

Alfie Kohn's New York Times article, «When A Parent's «I Love You» Means «Do As I Say»,» explores the damage this kind of «conditional parenting» (recommended by experts like talk show host Phil McGraw and Jo Frost of «Supernanny») causes, as the child grows to resent, distrust and dislike his parents, feel guilt, shame, and a lack of self - worth.

The smart and impressive Lisa Ling was part of the Dove conference keynote, and when she started talking about girls» self - esteem and the correlation between sex trafficking and lack of positive male models, my eyes welled with tears.

When I talk about sleep training, what I mean is moving up the steps that comprise the hierarchy of self - soothing to improve sleep habits.

* Research suggests that kids learn better self - control when their parents talk about feelings, how other people feel.