I am 60 years old, grew up in a very legalistic cultic
church, been part
of several church leaderships, served as pastor
of a start up
church, read and went to many, many, many
church growth conferences, wanted to reach the lost, always trying to find the best structures, the best form
of church, and what
type of bells and whistles will attract people to
church.
Other folks that usually do not have patience produced
of steel decide on to grow to be active in different
types of singles groups, and attend all
of the singles events and functions which can be scheduled through
several distinct
church groups.