Or worse still, the suggestion that I must have some huge
sexual sin in my life because I have a pelvic pain disorder.
Wow, I've never seen or heard of anyone publicly confessing
a sexual sin in a mainline Protestant church.
Even if you have struggled with
sexual sin in the past, what the devil meant for shame, hurt and brokenness, can be redeemed.
She just wrote a very interesting piece on obeying God, salvation / works, and also specially masturbation — but I think this can also be applied more broadly to
sexual sin in general.
Purity culture also creates a push toward marriage as a redemptive state that can «erase»
sexual sins in a relationship.
Not exact matches
note to how this relates: - some have suggested the idea «homosexuality» is not really
in the Bible (can be lumped together with other
sexual sins?)
By commenting on sexuality as an aspect of our lives
in which we can live for God, this seems to imply more than simply refraining from
sexual sin.
«some have suggested the idea «homosexuality» is not really
in the Bible (can be lumped together with other
sexual sins?)»
However, there really IS something biblical and unmovable
in the fact that Jesus declared the woman caught
in sexual sin to be forgiven, BUT ALSO demanded that she
sin no more.
You are looking for them to just be accepted
in this life, mine would be to get them saved and out of their
sin ----- just like the couple that have attended the church I pastor who are living together
in sexual sin.
bob —
In much of fundamentalist Christianity, here in the USA, we are taught that sexual lust toward someone who is not your spouse, is a sin (You know, the old «committing adultery in your heart» syndrome?
In much of fundamentalist Christianity, here
in the USA, we are taught that sexual lust toward someone who is not your spouse, is a sin (You know, the old «committing adultery in your heart» syndrome?
in the USA, we are taught that
sexual lust toward someone who is not your spouse, is a
sin (You know, the old «committing adultery
in your heart» syndrome?
in your heart» syndrome?).
Thus, the
sin committed by one who continues to engage
in sexual relations with someone to whom he or she is not (currently) married may not be grievously culpable.
Along the way, Milbank suggests that the Church's emphasis on
sexual sins and on hell played a role
in secularization, and he ends by asking how we can affirm at least some «procedure and institutionalization»
in reinventing a more participatory, erotic, and interpersonal Christianity.
zefi, Suppose my son is living with his girlfriend
in a
sexual relationship -LCB-
sin as defined by the Bible -RCB-.
I had a friend who was engaging
in a
sexual sin (not homosexual, but that doesn't matter), while she was still Christian.
The concept of once saved always saved takes a bit to get your head around but Gods grace is greater than our
sin and greater than our good works it just takes faith
in Jesus Christ to recieve Gods grace.
In saying that to continue to
sin as a christian is like playing with fire you will be burnt.Paul talks of the
sexual immorality
in corinthian church of the son and father that were sleeping with the same wife they were excommunicated from the church the members were not allowed to even eat with them until they repented.There are consequences for our actions.The other side to this is that if you continue to
sin as a christian you are not walking by faith but walking by the flesh and are really backsliding.
In the backslidden state you also become powerless and open to attack by satan as long as we walk
in the flesh he can influence us to get worse not better.If we are walking
in Christ satan may still try to tempt us but we are empowered by the holy spirit and overcome him and our faith increases.Both are saved by grace but one is powerless because of
sin versus saved but an overcomer having been set free from
sin i think this is what Paul was trying to explain.It is better to be an overcomer than overcome by
sin.brentnz
SGM evoked a religious freedom defense
in 2013 when the confidentiality of its pastoral counseling was challenged, stating, «SGM believes that allowing courts to second - guess pastoral guidance would represent a blow to the First Amendment that would hinder, not help, families seeking spiritual direction among other resources
in dealing with the trauma related to any
sin including child
sexual abuse.»
I guess the confusion for me is that «
sexual immorality,» as far as the NT audience was concerned, referred back to the
sexual sins outlined
in the OT law, and it seems like sleeping with one's father's wife would be on par with homosexuality, which is included
in the same set of «sexually immoral»
sins.
Women suffer shame and guilt not just around
sexual sin but around the sheer fact of living
in a body.
«SGM believes that allowing courts to second - guess pastoral guidance would represent a blow to the First Amendment that would hinder, not help, families seeking spiritual direction among other resources
in dealing with the trauma related to any
sin including child
sexual abuse,» a representative of SGM said
in a November 14 statement.
The
sexual life participates
in the realm of freedom,
in both
sin and grace.
In this context he defines the
sin of contraception as to «subordinate the primary purpose potential of the
sexual function and organs to secondary purposes of the
sexual act, this subordinationunderstood of a physical ordering of nature»; «the primary end intrinsic to the physical nature of the act [may not be] subordinated to other purposes».
The second principle for a
sexual ethic is that we have to speak of sex, as of every aspect of human life,
in a double way, from the standpoint of essential created goodness, and the distortion produced by
sin.
Sexual taboo was the big
sin from day one
in this culture.
Again, sorry for the long post, but I do believe that there are many aspects that I touch on, that many people haven't considered,
in their questioning of some forms of
sexual expression as being a «
sin».
But alongside the «deadly
sins» mentioned
in Galatians like «
sexual immorality,» «debauchery» and «drunkenness» are acts that may be less outwardly apparent, but no less dangerous to our souls: «hatred, discord, jealousy, fits of rage, selfish ambition, dissensions, faction.»
We've isolated and condemned homosexuality as an especially egregious
sin because 1) it's a
sexual thing (and we're obsessed with sex), 2) it's relatively easy to identify and name, (unlike gossip and materialism and greed, which are condemned more often
in the Bible and are more pervasive
in our culture), and 3) it is «other,» (when you're straight, and
in no danger of committing homosexual acts yourself, it's easy to call it an abomination because it's easier to remove specks from others people's eyes.)
The fact is, however, that while the Talmud criticizes Samson's
sexual sins, it also explicitly lavishes praise on the manner
in which he protected Israel from its enemies.
Charles, I think there are a lot more serious forms of flaunting rebellion that goes on
in the church today than whatever
sexual sin the LGBT people are involved
in.
For example, Ezekiel writes, «Behold, this was the
sin of your sister Sodom: she and her daughters lived
in pride, plenty and thoughtless ease; they supported not the poor and the needy; they grew haughty and committed abominations [
sexual orgies to bring fertility] before me.
These attempts to glorify and pacify those who are flaunting rebellion against God using
sexual sin is not new at all and God Himself promised the deception and delusion that is now rampant - just like
in the days of Sodom and Lot: «They called to Lot, «Where are the men who came to ⌊ stay with ⌋ you tonight?
It seems the most likely scenario is that he married his sister or less likely his niece.The reasoning is that Adam and Eve lived alot longer and continued to have sons and daughters GEN5: 4 aCTS 17:26 Paul tells us that the God who made the world hath made of one blood all nations of man to dwell on all the face of the earth.Cain did nt marry to another tribe or nation as every man and women was a relative and of the same bloodline of Adam and Eve.The importance of this is that
sin entered through one man Adam and is past through the bloodline so redemption is only possible through the same bloodline.So for the formula to work the human genome had to stay the same no other tribes or nations just the descendents of Adam and Eve.It also solves another riddle
in that satan at various times prior to the flood and after the flood tried to contaminate the bloodline by his angels having
sexual relations with the women this created a type of alien
in essence and would have not been able to have been redeemed by the blood of Jesus as it wasnt fully human.This is where the giants came from and why God wanted to destroy them as they had the potential to destroy the human race as they couldnt be redeemed by the blood of Jesus.Interesting?
Scott mentions some examples of grievous willful
sins such as murder, rape,
sexual immorality, etc. and wonder what they mean
in light of the gift of salvation freely given by faith
in Christ.
You seem to have highlighted particular
sins as though some are worse than others all
sin leads to death not just the big ones because we all are sinners.All have gone astray none are righteous.I believe the worst
sin is pride idolatry is the first commandment we set ourselves as Gods.Regardless of what the
sin is, our hearts are condemned by our pride.It wasnt the
sin of homosexuality or
sexual deviance that destroyed sodom.It was there pride and it is one of our biggest stumbling blocks
in our christian walk or it certainly was for me.We look at the story of the adulterous woman and we think adultery is a terrible crime but the story is for our benefit to show that we all are sinners that Jesus does nt condemn us but came to save us.And when Jesus says go and
sin no more he was not only talking to the woman but everyone else that was around judging her for her
sin its a universal message that we all need to see that we all are condemned because of our
sin that Jesus came to save us and that we turn from our
sin and follow him.Because he is the way the truth and the life.brentnz
Verging on the incredible,
in the week following the release of the NRB report, the Los Angeles Archdiocese issued a statement declaring: «The Church treated clerical
sexual abuse primarily as a moral weakness and a
sin.
Here, Paul is referring to such fleshly
sins that disqualify a man from preaching and leading the church, particularly being blameless and above reproach
in the
sexual area, since such
sin is a disqualification (see Ps.
Perhaps that's why we spend so much time fixated on the physical motes
in the eyes of others (
sexual sin, for example) and neglect the spiritual logs — like pride and hypocrisy —
in our own.
A priest whom Kennedy considers to be «fully developed»
in psychological terms says that masturbation is not sinful, that he doesn't accept the «theory of mortal and venial
sin», and that there is not much guilt or sinfulness associated with
sexual misbehaviour.
It is true that the Church has concentrated too much on prohibitions, has declared (
sexual) taboos, and has sometimes,
in preaching on
sin, internalized guilt feelings.
As humans
in a broken sinfilled world we often struggle with «The Desires of The Flesh» found
in Galatians 5:16 - 26, which are: «Now the works of the flesh are evident:
sexual immorality, impurity, sensuality, idolatry, sorcery, enmity, strife, jealousy, fits of anger, rivalries, dissensions, divisions,...» Because we are human, but we CAN CHANGE, because Christ forgave us at the cross of EVERY
sins as Jeremy states over and over
in his message.
Directed by Marie Fortune, a pastor and author of
Sexual Violence, The Unmentionable Sin: An Ethical and Pastoral Perspective (Pilgrim Press, 1983), the Center has developed resources for congregational study and action, including a study guide for teen - agers on preventing sexual abuse, a monograph on violence against women of color, and a manual for congregational use in discovering and developing community resources on family vio
Sexual Violence, The Unmentionable
Sin: An Ethical and Pastoral Perspective (Pilgrim Press, 1983), the Center has developed resources for congregational study and action, including a study guide for teen - agers on preventing
sexual abuse, a monograph on violence against women of color, and a manual for congregational use in discovering and developing community resources on family vio
sexual abuse, a monograph on violence against women of color, and a manual for congregational use
in discovering and developing community resources on family violence.
Sexual sin is not tolerated
in our churches.
The reason same - sex relations were condemned is because they were not
in the context of a loving, long - term relationship (May I ask - do you tell homosexuals that are only
in a short - term,
sexual relationship that they are
sinning, and if so what is their response?)
If you were homeless, or addicted to drugs, or struggling with
sexual temptations (heterosexual is no less a
sin), would you be interested
in listening to someone who called you names and told you that you were going to hell?
And this love makes us forget anything so that the mere thought of
sexual sin becomes boring and ridiculous
in comparison with an ecstatic love
in the Holy Spirit that fulfills our every desire — with Pentecostal FIRE.
It was a decade ago, so
sexual abuse was still very much kept under wraps
in institutions, and people were still being told to forgive the
sin, look at all the good they've done, don't judge....
If He didn't judge those
in sexual sin why should we think we have the right??
While everyone can be susceptible to
sexual sin, an itinerant ministry
in which accountability structures are weak, where the preacher or evangelist has a large ego and spends many days away from home living
in hotel rooms, is often particularly vulnerable.
But I have heard multiple reports, involving different groups,
in which the group reacted more forcefully to someone who said, «I'm gay and celibate» than they reacted to someone who was actively involved
in sexual sin.
When
sin is defined
in terms of
sexual purity, the focus of the Christian life shifts away from expression of love for God and neighbor to an obsession with internal conflict between «higher» and «lower» impulses.