Not exact matches
Assuming his eyes holdup I think he'd do
better at the weight
simply as he hasn't taken it out of himself getting to 147 and can
keep the
work rate
up.
Simply setting
up a structure and using consequences to
keep a child with ADHD on task, as you would for a child who does not have it, will usually not
work - in fact, it's been shown that children with ADHD respond
better when you alter the rewards and consequences system.
This money should be equal - whether it is literally apportioned directly (each of you has 200 a month in an account) or
simply budgeted for with a common account is
up to you, whatever
works best for your personal habits; separate accounts
works well for many here to
keep things honest.
Making deals and then completely failing to uphold them is a part of the game and wholly encouraged, as is being able to understand when it's
best to
simply work toward
keeping the threat level in check, even if it means giving
up some capital.