Just as violence begets violence,
so angry parents tend to result in angry children, and parents who ridicule tend to produce sarcastic children, and critical parents tend to generate negative children, and on and on.
Not exact matches
I was
angry on your behalf because you had no support or education, no one fighting for what you wanted for your babe and
so you gave up little by little to pressure from
parents and friends and marketers.
I was hopeful that today's moms were experiencing more equal marriages when it comes to sharing chores and childcare; I was hopeful we'd moved past the disturbing study
Parents magazine reported in 2011, Mad at Dad, with the subhead, «We love our husbands —
so why are we
so angry at them,
so often.»
I'm guessing these
parents have felt anger toward their kids but are scared of the word «
angry»
so they would use different words, like «upset» «frustrated» «lost my cool» or «impatient».
Levine works with teenagers who are depleted,
angry and sad as they compete for admission to a handful of big - name colleges, and with
parents who can't steady or guide them,
so lost are they in the pursuit of goals that have drained their lives of pleasure, contentment and connection.
So, it's not so much how to parent without shame, but rather how to parent our children — and ourselves — to best process the normal emotions of shame that will arise in their lives, just as we teach them to do when they are angry or disappointe
So, it's not
so much how to parent without shame, but rather how to parent our children — and ourselves — to best process the normal emotions of shame that will arise in their lives, just as we teach them to do when they are angry or disappointe
so much how to
parent without shame, but rather how to
parent our children — and ourselves — to best process the normal emotions of shame that will arise in their lives, just as we teach them to do when they are
angry or disappointed.
Almost — because in the middle of a little person's over-the-top outburst, when he's feeling
so misunderstood,
so denied,
so frustrated,
angry, sad, out of control of his world, is when the
parent needs to strive to empathize with his child and to stay attuned.
Americans listen to stupid doctors for
parenting advice instead of their own intuition as
parents... our country is
SO effed up in the parenting / nurturing / bonding category... but somehow we still wonder why Americans as a whole are so angr
SO effed up in the
parenting / nurturing / bonding category... but somehow we still wonder why Americans as a whole are
so angr
so angry?
So the challenge for
parents is to allow their daughters to be
angry and aggressive, and to allow their sons to be vulnerable and tender.
So next time you feel guilt for something, feel judged by someone, feel shamed by information, feel
angry at being challenged on your
parenting — use it.
I hear from
angry parents every month who want to know why we aren't able to do here in San Francisco what they do in Berkeley; they read about school food and get the idea that Berkeley faces all the same challenges that everyone else does,
so how come they are able to have grass fed beef and scratch cooked meals and we aren't?
I was
angry on your behalf because you had no support or education, no one fighting for what you wanted for your babe and
so you gave up little by little to pressure from
parents and friends and marketers.
So it's possible your
parents will be insulted or
angry, especially if they're worried they won't be able to quit.
Dr. Deb Pontillo:
Parents have to be you know, especially careful about how they resolve conflict because even just between husband and wife or partners, that the modeling goes a wrong way and
so if you get
angry and frustrated and you yell how do you think your kids are going to resolve their conflicts.
I agree with @nics82 and @lynne this couldnt be said better oh that of waking a sleeping baby yes i got pissed off but im sure alot of guest ended up
angry at me for telling them you will not wake our son when his asleep if you want to do
so rather leave... and the noise toys we are actually the ones buying them to entertain our little man and it does mommy is
so used to the sounds they make it does nt bother me but daddy thats not here 24/7 it gets to him somtimes however he make just as much noise when he play with our son... these top 10
parent pet peeve are indeed
so spot on and oh yes and those who give the most advice but do nt even have kids of their own omw....
Instead of lashing out at a teen
so that he or she becomes defensive,
parents need to talk to their teens about their feelings and what makes them
so angry.
So Clegg appeared, looking sad and knackered, like a
parent when they're «not
angry, just disappointed».
«My
parents are
so angry at me because I'm flunking out!
To her office troop hordes of
angry parents, insisting that she raise their child's grade - point average by a fraction of a point or that she classify their daughter as learning disabled
so she can have extra time on the SATs or that she push their son to apply to the father's alma mater even though the boy lacks the grades to get in.
As one Arizona
parent put it, «I supported the teachers» cause initially, but now, I am
so angry with their refusal to fulfill their contractual obligations to my kids.»
This pretend war makes me
so angry because charter school leaders and
parents have no desire to detract from district schools.
That's why it was
so disturbing when New York State Education Commissioner John King, Jr. abruptly canceled four town - hall style meetings about the new standards earlier this month after being heckled by
angry parents in Poughkeepsie.
At a recent town hall which Bobb had called
so he could go over his plan,
angry students,
parents, and teachers drove him from the meeting.
I'm
angry because I'm working
so hard but feel like I'm failing miserably as a writer, a
parent and just as a person.
Sometimes a
parent is
so angry with the other
parent that all they can seek is revenge as they spew
angry behavior.
The allegations can include that the soon to be rejected
parent has poor
parenting skills, never really cared for the child and in fact was at times
so angry he or she was very abusive.
Sometimes
parents want to soothe and protect the child, and
so they try to placate the child and prevent any stressor that would make the child
angry.
On the other hand, particularly with older children, it is also important to grant them some level of privacy about therapy,
so that they feel free to express emotions without fear of a
parent getting
angry or upset.
However, few things make an estranged spouse
so angry as seeing the
parent of his or her children dating during the divorce.
Even the most selfish
angry parents don't want that for their children,
so if you are still fighting almost five years after your break - up, shame on both of you!
Don't commit «parental alienation»: Sometimes
parents are
so angry with each other, they bring the children into it and badmouth the other
parent so much, that they end up alienating the child's affection for the other
parent.
So, whether it is an abusive boss who hasn't found another way to get dependable results, a high - potential employee with a reputation for seeming arrogant, an
angry, overwhelmed
parent, A partner who withdraws and another who pursues, or someone who has tried diet after diet to lose weight, it all makes sense after exploring it together.
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You and the other
parent are still
so angry, hurt or defeated that you can't deal with seeing each other.
Another example of this is when the
parents are
so angry with each other that the child feels he has to say things to each
parent that is not true in order to maintain that
parent's love and affection.
The more stressed and
angry parents become, the more the child will act out, and
so on.
In the moment, while the child is interacting with the unpredictable and emotionally dangerous narcissistic / (borderline)
parent, the primary motivation of the child is to keep the narcissistic / (borderline)
parent in a regulated emotional state and
so avoid the
parent's collapse into hostile -
angry - rejecting, overly sad and depressed, or hyper - anxious emotional displays.
They may even feel
so frustrated or
angry that try to avoid or blame the
parent who remarriages.
But do — yes, do — mention that you're scared,
angry, sad and especially «whatever»,
so that we can blame that on the «loss of living with both
parents, even if we can't peg your mother on it.