Likewise, sometimes stressed parents have less attention and sometimes less patience for the non-ADHD siblings, leading to resentments (e.g., «You knew that would start a fight with your brother so why didn't you just let him have it?»)
I am less clear precisely how Harned wants both to affirm the unity of the virtues - that we can have none of them apart from the others - while at the same time claiming that patience can sometimes be a vice.