You can check references forever — and I do — but ultimately, leaving your kids in the hands of someone else is almost always
somewhat of a leap of faith.
Not exact matches
Let's be honest when read in a vacuum everyone has very strange beliefs that can be
somewhat supported on facts but has loopholes that require a
leap of faith.
If there's enough evidence / info then to make that judgement, that's super — it becomes a
somewhat iterative process — but I suspect a
leap of faith might still be needed at that point.