Were these kids were getting
spanked because they were more aggressive or slow to begin with?
Before that time if you were bitten by a dog your parents
spanked you because you must have done something to agitate the dog.
Were these kids were getting
spanked because they were more aggressive or slow to begin with?
Opposed to this, Arsenal was recently embarrassed by Liverpool and were duly
spanked because Wenger got his formation for his available players wrong and used the wrong tactics.
She was the family disciplinarian, but there were few
spankings because I was a good boy.
There is no way Arsenal defenders will have an injury - free season... At some stage it will come to bite Wenger and I just hope we don't get another Chelsh ** t
spanking because of his penny pinching....
I think that children who are spanked are more likely to grow up into adults that
spank because of the argument, «I got spanked and I turned out OK.»
While it may be that corporal punishment leads to decreased aggression, it is also technically possible that decreased aggression in children leads parents to spank (perhaps parents
spank because the children are not aggressive enough?)
Many parents
spank because they are exasperated with their child's behavior and want it to stop but don't know what else to do.
To be quite honest, I am very rarely that parent who
spanks because if I were to do it, I would probably do it in anger.
Some parents use
spanking because they think that their toddlers will be highly obedient if they use physical punishment.
Some parents resort to
spanking because their kids are particularly aggressive or defiant, which means the causation is bidirectional: Child aggression can trigger spanking, and spanking can make kids more aggressive (Barnes et al 2013).
And no, I have never been an advocate of
spankings because it is a double standard to hit, hurt, and then turn around and tell them they can not do the same.
While it may be that corporal punishment leads to decreased aggression, it is also technically possible that decreased aggression in children leads parents to spank (perhaps parents
spank because the children are not aggressive enough?)
Not exact matches
As Daniels tells it, part of her connection with Trump had to do with the fact that she called him out on his narcissism and self - regard, teasingly
spanking him with a copy of Trump magazine
because he wouldn't stop talking about himself.
But their quick obedience to that look isn't
because they are worried about a frightful
spanking or punishment when they get home away from witnesses.
The child may well not do X
because he / she fears the
spanking but eventually, as the child grows up, he / she should learn that there are other better reasons for not doing X (assuming that doing X is indeed bad).
If you interrupt mom while she's talking to a friend at church, you're
spanked at home later,
because that was dishonoring to her and you should know to wait for her to notice you before interrupting her conversation.
If you talk back to dad after he
spanks you for not sharing, or argue that it was really your brother's fault, you get
spanked again (
because obviously you're still in rebellion or lying).
No,
because one of the brand -
spanking new Porsche Cayennes had the word «Safety Car» misspelled on the side.
If it's to attract players then i doubt it
because they see our annual Feb
spankings and don't wish to participate.
Successful is getting
spanked in the first round all but one year, and missing the finals
because the genius coach had a 6 foot back up pg throw in an inbounds pass at the end of the game?
I'm not thinking of Top 4
because we have already been
spanked by City and Liverpool.
Not only b / c it glorifies
spanking, but
because of the judgment in blatantly makes about parents who DO N'T
spank their children.
This gave me a chuckle,
because I've had parents in our area say the same thing about me — but they
spank and I no longer do.
That doesn't mean I believe in
spanking for my children,
because I do not.
Humiliations,
spankings and beatings, slaps in the face, betrayal, sexual exploitation, derision, neglect, etc. are all forms of mistreatment,
because they injure the integrity and dignity of a child, even if their consequences are not visible right away.
I just wanted to point out that many parents
spank, not
because they can not control their temper, but
because they have thoughtfully decided that it is an effective way to discipline their children.
Now when she (and our baby on the way) are older, we are going to use different punishment techniques
because no matter how much you
spank a teenager, you get your point across better if you take away something they love.
We hardly ever got
spanked as kids, but the few times it happened
because of severe and usually dangerous transgressions, it really made an impact.
I distinctly remember dad
spanking baby's hand
because she was trying to grab the spoon when he was feeding her.
So, for example, if you tell me that you
spanked your child
because you were frustrated and at your wit's end and didn't know what else to do, I may think that you made the wrong choice in that moment.
And my ex and I agreed that we'd avoid
spankings and shouting entirely,
because they were things we'd both grown up experiencing and we didn't want those same memories for our kids.
Other mothers simply feel that
spanking isn't effective: «I don't plan on using
spanking — I think it teaches children to «behave» out of fear, not
because they've learned right from wrong.»
You are doing a good job, and you encourage me
because I feel like an island of AP parenting alone in my area, surrounded by gallons of formula, babies scarred from CIO, and people
spanking right in front of me.
This is scary,
because an article in the Boston Globe said that 70 percent of Americans think that
spanking is sometimes necessary - and 90 percent of parents of toddlers
spank them.
I think the danger in
spanking is more for the parent than the child,
because it is more tempting to use as a tool when you're angry.
It's hard to know exactly what percentage of parents or caregivers (like grandparents) actually
spank a child,
because many who do don't admit to it.
I modified my outward behaviour
because I was afraid of the physical consequences, but
spanking was like a supposed «cure - all» which did absolutely nothing for my inner growth in the long run.
If you have your baby cry it out or if you
spank your child, you may feel that is «loving» them
because you feel you're teaching a life lesson, but crying it out and
spanking is not perceived as loving actions by your child.
I remember thinking I would do cry - it - out and
spanking just as I was raised,
because... well, that was how I was raised, and I turned out fine, right?
While
spanking to some of us may come almost as second nature
because it was the tool of choice of our parents, there are other equally or more effective tools for fathers.
When parents
spank, it «works»
because the kids are scared of the parent.
This is scary,
because I just recently read an article in the Boston Globe that said that 70 percent of Americans think that
spanking is sometimes necessary — and 90 percent of parents of toddlers
spank them.
I guess I've never seen this as a real issue
because, when
spanking is done right, it's not even comparable to a child hitting someone.
When you
spank you sent the message that you do it
because you can and that teaches your child he / she can do the same when in positioned of power.
During one visit to see me, I was astounded when my mother
spanked my baby
because she didn't want to sit still.
As to the I Don't Like
Spanking My Kids, But I Do It Anyway author's contention that «We are raising a generation of children who are over-sensitive
because they eventually find out that they aren't as good at baseball or ballet as some other kid and their parents promised them that everyone is equal.
Please encourage me with facts as to why I must stick to no
spanking for defiance,
because I am very confused now.
Add another notch to their useless - when - comes - to - discipline belts,
because the French have outlawed
spanking.