While there is some kind of justice in calling out and ridiculing bullies, that's a lot like
spanking kids for hitting, or sending lifelong criminals back to jail.
Rather, they suggest that
spanking kids may be less harmful in certain cultural settings.
As to the I Don't Like
Spanking My Kids, But I Do It Anyway author's contention that «We are raising a generation of children who are over-sensitive because they eventually find out that they aren't as good at baseball or ballet as some other kid and their parents promised them that everyone is equal.
Before you ever consider
spanking kids, consider going through these steps first.
When I was about 20 years old, I met an old pastor's wife who told me that when she was young and had her first child, she didn't believe in striking children, although
spanking kids with a switch pulled from a tree was standard punishment at that time.
While most pediatricians and parenting experts don't recommend spanking, the vast majority of parents around the world admit to
spanking their kids.
Is there a way to get compliance without
spanking your kids?
CNN posted
Spanking Kids Leads to Long - Term Bad Behavior more than 10 years ago.
How parents gave me permission to
spank their kids if I needed to when I babysat, how other parents promised to come straight home from their prescribed weekly date night and
spank their kids if they gave me any trouble.
The mothers and fathers still
spank their kids down there.»
Does that mean
spanked kids * never * go to jail?
I am by no means a perfect parent (if such a thing even exists) and I've definitely felt the urge to
spank my kids on occasion.
(
Spank your Kids) Don't be another Friend Dare to Discipline.
Take a blog post from some crazy mofo over on noted crazy mofo endtimes bunker Townhall, entitled If You Don't
Spank Your Kids, Jesus Certainly Will.
I'll be honest, the idea of Jesus
spanking a kid, even metaphorically, grates on me big time.
I've never
spanked my kids.
While most people (at least publicly) decry the use of spanking as a form of child discipline, more people do
spank their kids than they let on.
I am a amazing parent and
I spank my kids on occasion.
You don't have to
spank your kids to discipline them.
If you even talk about
spanking your kid, let alone do it in public, there's a reasonable chance that social services will be knocking on your door.
It made me laugh to think of you trying to
spank your kids!
So no, Steve Bannon — the solution to mental illness isn't to
spank your kids more.
The Science Of Spanking: What Happens To
Spanked Kids When They Grow Up?
I never hit or
spank my kids.
The child welfare system is more likely to intervene in households in «less neighborly» neighborhoods and in which parents
spank their kids, a new study shows.
The study found that
spanked kids tended to have higher odds of being violent toward their dating partners, researchers said.
Some will speculate this is nonsense since Jeff Daniels character hit him with the gavel, but i think this is more like
spanking your kid kinda thing..
According to a recent study, moms who were going through intense financial stress were more likely to yell at their kids and
spank their kids.
Not exact matches
the point of the joke is nothing to do with the
spanking, but with the
kid's using his poor interpretation of scripture to defend himself
The old master does three more rounds with less capable students than the frat
kid (chasing a hugely rotund guy who's wearing glasses around the ring,
spanking him on the seat of his workout pants instead of punching his face or his jiggling body; cartoonishly winding up and lampoonishly telegraphing all of his punches while letting a 140 - pound pointed - nose novice push him around all - four square), then he steps awkwardly from the ring and immediately begins to walk his great - granddaddy walk.
The summer holidays are nearly over and the Arsenal fan's are having to go back to school wearing the same old crusty school uniform, whilst all the over
kids are kitted out with
spanking new gear!
I too never wanted to do anything physically harmful tomy
kids and have
spanked Ewan a few times... it makes me ill and I hate the look in his eyes when I do it.
I read a lot today about the argument (in favor of
spanking) that
kids today are out of control and disrespectful and I think the vast majority of that comes down to how they were raised in the early years.
Some people have the mistaken idea that a parent who does not
spank simple lets their
kids run wild without correcting or guiding them.
A few commenters on the Strollerderby post, They Say:
Spanking Makes Your
Kid Mean, a Bit Dumb, question how scientific this study was and if other variables could have played a role in the aggressiveness of the children.
Without getting all into the
spanking debate (I'm very much against
spanking as a discipline technique), the idea that not
spanking leads to out of control
kids who will go to jail is so offensive.
We hardly ever got
spanked as
kids, but the few times it happened because of severe and usually dangerous transgressions, it really made an impact.
«The implication or the suggestion in past arguments is that some
kids who are more aggressive or difficult to control might elicit more
spanking, but that's not what we found,» Berlin said.»
Many moms who were
spanked as
kids believe they were hit undeservedly, or out of anger or frustration.
We should honor our
kid not to
spank her, shame her or use ugly words which only can kill her self - confidence.
And my ex and I agreed that we'd avoid
spankings and shouting entirely, because they were things we'd both grown up experiencing and we didn't want those same memories for our
kids.
Of the more than 1,300 moms we surveyed, 81 percent were
spanked as
kids, but only 49 percent of them choose to swat their own
kids.
Although most moms who answered our survey — 81 percent — were
spanked as children, only 49 percent say they use this method in disciplining their own
kids.
A 50 - year meta - analysis from the University of Michigan and the University of Austin Texas found that
kids who were
spanked were more likely to exhibit antisocial behaviour, aggression, mental health problems, and cognitive difficulties.
Whatever you think of
spanking, whether you were
spanked as a child or whether you
spank your own
kids, whenever you are deciding which discipline method to employ, it's important to make sure it is the most effective one to implement.
i consider my self a AP and i
spank my children, they are amazing
kids and understand that i do nt
spank them cause i hate them.
* I also send my
kids to public school, let them watch TV, vaccinate them (though I do think there are too many of those), reprimand them for misbehaviour and use timeouts (no
spanking though), and other such heretical things.
And yes, parents can teach
kids these things without punishments, without threats, without inducing fear, and without
spanking.
Spanking may elicit appropriate behavior in children, but it is a technique that, no matter how it is administered, does not support a secure attachment; it does not meet
kids» emotional needs, and it functions against the goals of AP (communication, connection).
All are able to accomplish the same results as
spanking (setting limits, expecting accountability, teaching
kids appropriate behavior) but with the important element of respect.