Not exact matches
I
spent many years on Wall Street but burned out and had
kids, and a switch went off where I didn't want to head into the office on a Saturday morning but
instead wanted to play
with my son.
You apply for a job in my community by running a campaign for a paid office that my local tax dollars pay for and you get elected then show up to your first scheduled meeting and decide to
spend the first 5 minutes — eating donuts
instead of working, speaking to the audience about your personal problems
with your wife, telling the audience about an upcoming play your
kid will be in, telling the captive audience about the benefits of being gay, speaking to them about God or praying aloud to your God regardless of which God the rest of the audience believes in.
When I flip through my Timehop at this time of year, I can't escape reminders that my last big summer I was supposed to
spend home
with the
kids was
spent,
instead, convalescing from a herniated disc and back surgery.
The sheer ridiculousness of the comments you refer to is freaking hilarious... because obviously these people either a) don't have
kids themselves, in which case they have no business intimating that they would make a better parent than you, or b) do, in fact, have children, but
SPEND ALL OF THEIR TIME READING BLOGS THAT THEY CAN MAKE DEROGATORY COMMENTS ON
INSTEAD OF BONDING
WITH THEIR CHILDREN.
Plus,
instead of
spending every weekend getting errands done and forgetting to plan some quality activities
with kids [my weekends!]
So
instead of worrying about
spending more time
with your
kids, just focus making the best of the time you have
with your
kids.
Instead of making ourselves crazy getting the perfect decorations and frosting an outrageous cake, maybe our
kids would rather we just slow down and
spend more quality time
with them as their birthdays approach.
It's true that a lot of moms
spend way too much time on their phones
instead of playing
with their
kids.
I now have more time to
spend making memories
with my
kids instead of being stuck in the kitchen trying to come up
with meals that they don't love.
I was team mom for little league, cheer mom, pta mom, chaperoned school field trips, volunteered as a classroom helper and parent at their schools (when in public school) attended toddler tumbling and mom classes, was a homeschooling parent for one of my
kids with leaning disabilities, I didn't have to scramble to figure out what to do about work or where to take my
kids for child care if they were sick, I led and was involved
with the church groups
with my
kids, I
spent summers
with them doing all kinds of things like traveling, visiting grandparents out of town, amusement park trips, swimming, picnics, and hiking,
instead of them being stuck
with a sitter every summer.
If you want to
spend more time
with your
kids, just choose one after - school activity this season
instead of three.
What I did when I was pregnant
with my second
kid (experience does make you wiser — and more frugal too, since I realized that we now had to provide for TWO
kids instead of ONE, when we were more all out in our
spendings.)
Non-helicopter parents tend to judge women who
spend time at the playground
with their
kids instead of on the sidelines, and women who «hover» over their
kids and engage in all aspects of their lives day in and day out are sometimes said to be causing them more harm than good.
Instead of
spending your money this is the perfect opportunity to
spend some quality time
with the
kids!
Spending time
with your
kids instead of working?
I had so much time in the morning to
spend with my
kids and focus on other things (
instead of fussing endlessly over my outfit), and I also genuinely loved each look.
Moonee doesn't go to school,
instead she hangs
with her best pal Scooty (Christopher Rivera),
spending her days trying to stem the boredom as a normal if undisciplined
kid, spitting on cars or trying to cadge a free ice cream.
Instead of reading just 10 minutes a day, I enjoy
spending 30 minutes or more sharing great books
with my
kids.
The world will be much worse when
instead of professionals who've
spent years developing skills and experience, we only have
kids working out of their parents» houses, making cheap covers for beer money
with a bootleg copy of Photoshop and photos they took
with their iPhone or swiped offline.
Instead of
spending $ 15 on a white elephant gift exchange where everyone may or may not end up
with something useful, have everybody bring a
kid's book to donate.
When you have a peaceful home
with no power struggles and
kids who actually want to do the right thing, you
spend more time enjoying them
instead of constantly trying to keep them out of trouble.
Second, it can provide clear boundaries at Christmas, so you can
spend time
with family
instead of arguing over who gets the
kids when.
If we
spend 8 hours a day at our job, 2 hours a day commuting (hopefully listening to podcasts that will enrich yourself
instead of music or talk radio), there are still a good 4 - 5 hours a day we can
spend doing things productive, like property hunting, rehabbing, managing your business, playing
with your
kids, and interacting
with your spouse.