I think there is a great misunderstanding in the church about what it means for Jesus to return, and what it meant for Him to «go away» and much of this misunderstanding has led to great manipulation and
spiritual abuse in the Christian church.
Too often
spiritual abuse in the form of shame is directed at those, especially young people, who dare to question the teachings of highly placed Pentecostal ministers and evangelists.
Next month we will examine in depth the extent of
spiritual abuse in the UK.
Tiggy: if you have missed out on
spiritual abuse in its many guises, the most infamous being the American sourced shepherding movemenr of the late 70s & early 80s, then consider yourself blessed in your ignorance
Next month we will look in depth at the issue of
spiritual abuse in the UK and then we will consider appropriate responses and remedies.
I am focusing on
spiritual abuse in particular: Admit that it happened.
As one who has been through the living hell of
spiritual abuse in my old church there is no way I can keep quiet about those who abuse church members.
Brad Sargeant (futuristguy) really is the go to person on how to deal with
spiritual abuse in the church context.
Not exact matches
The most common addiction among
spiritual leaders is pornography, although substance
abuse is just as gripping
in its occurrences.
I talk about the issue of
spiritual abuse and how people recover from this devastation
in their local church.
Or even «hierarchical» religion... I must say that the «hierarchy»
in my tradition has been the main instrument protecting me from
spiritual abuse, rather than afflicting it.
Don't name names or anything, but tell stories so that people
in the pews can be alerted to the
spiritual abuse that happens
in some churches, and so that
spiritual abusers can be put on notice that we aren't going to take it any more.
We are hearing about some serious
spiritual, physical and emotional
abuse here using the Name of Jesus
in a nefarious way.
This is NOT about the details of my divorce but about
spiritual abuse by a few and the Pathology that led to the Thugology
in the resulting context of really bad Theology.
I have always found it interesting and frustrating
in the conversation about
spiritual abuse and / or other type of
abuse within the Emergent circles of how women and men
in the «inner circle» use «they have always been nice.....»
I didn't write about Commenders with this current situation
in mind, but because I have generally been seeing an increased level of push - back against them from the
spiritual abuse survivor community over the past five years.
A friend of mine who teaches on the collegiate level recently told me, «I don't meet any young adults who've grown up
in the church lacking at least one story of
spiritual abuse.»
ttm, Belittling the question or the questioner and trying to shut them up is a form of
spiritual abuse when it's done
in a religious context or for supposedly religious reasons by someone
in a position of authority.
Because I take accusations of
spiritual abuse seriously (as, I'm sure, do all the people named
in Julie's email),
in recent days I've gone back
in my email archives and reread the many emails Julie sent or forwarded to me during and since 2008.
I myself am a survivor of multiple incidents of
spiritual abuse by leaders
in a range of evangelical, moderate, conservative, and fundamentalist churches and parachurch settings over the past 40 years.
SGM evoked a religious freedom defense
in 2013 when the confidentiality of its pastoral counseling was challenged, stating, «SGM believes that allowing courts to second - guess pastoral guidance would represent a blow to the First Amendment that would hinder, not help, families seeking
spiritual direction among other resources
in dealing with the trauma related to any sin including child sexual
abuse.»
I am neither, but I did marry a mentally ill person who has
abused his position as a chaplain and as a Pastor just as Danielle Shroyer, Brad Cecil, Doug Pagitt, Brian McLaren, Mike King and Mark Scandrette did by aiding
in this
spiritual abuse and diabolical behavior.
I'm
in a season of rethinking church & I'd appreciate links to the blog posts & books you would recommend that best unpack & support the idea that the western, institutional church wineskin is, by nature, prone to
spiritual abuse.
We're
in a conversation about
spiritual abuse — the process by which people who have
spiritual authority (pastors, preachers, priests, etc.) take advantage of that authority to do harm to those entrusted to their care.
I'm not a lawyer, but have had to do some research on SLAPP / anti-SLAPP because threats of defamation lawsuits against those who speak out seem to arise regularly
in situations that involve alleged
spiritual abuse.
We can read allowed together, if you wish, and
in round, the custody evaluation detailing the emotional, physical, and
spiritual abuses.
I'm
in the middle of finishing a blog series about responsibility, culpability, and complicity when it comes to
spiritual abuse.
Because you «take accusations of
spiritual abuse seriously»,
in your review of prior emails, did you not reconsider the attempt by the discernment team to have Julie committed to a mental institution to be potentially abusive?
comes up all the time
in spiritual abuse survivor communities.
... and we then find out publicly from Julie McMahon ex-Jones
in her online comments
in 2009, 2010, and 2014 that at the same time those seemingly good things were happening, apparently she was enduring emotional and verbal and physical and
spiritual abuse.
I have no dog
in this fight other than the same overwhelming urge to confront the abusers and seek an end to
spiritual manipulation and
abuse.
I came out of an abusive church situation, and very close after the realization that I'd been spiritually
abused came the realization that as a leader
in that system, I too had been a
spiritual abuser, repeating the pattern that had been taught to me.
As founder of the Trinity Retreat House, which operates «to provide
spiritual direction and retreats for clergy,» Groeschel has worked with priests involved
in abuse.
To me and to every victim of
spiritual abuse by Pastors
in a position of power and influence.
You have all aided
in this
spiritual abuse that is now out here
in the light of day.
I offered, at that time, my opinion that if you take Tony's post about Driscoll
in the context of all Tony has said about Pastor Mark, it's very clear that Tony does not «reflect the refusal of the church to understand
spiritual abuse» as David observed.
The culture of consumerism and the chase for material symbols of wealth and security have sometimes come to be dominant; the pursuit of
spiritual fulfillment
in many has slowly begun to degenerate into empty and sterile ritualism; the legitimate thirst for education has often become perverted into an obsessive drive to acquire with the greatest speed the formal diplomas necessary to gain entry to jobs offering the easiest opportunities to make the quickest rupees; political statesmanship
in some areas has begun to depreciate into an opportunities race for power and position; the spirit of SEVA (Service) to the nation has intermittently begun to be suffocated
in many, by the
abuse of discretions, sometimes mediated by a bloated bureaucracy itself enmeshed
in a vast network of multiplying paper and self - proliferating regulations; menacingly many good and decent people even
in public life, have come to be corroded by a culture of demanding corruption; and some potentially creative lawyers, have begun to take perverted pride
in mere «cleverness», rendering themselves vulnerable to the prejudice that they are a parasitic obstruction
in the pursuit of substantive justice.
If I had to guess, I would guess that most of the
spiritual abuse that you guys talk about occurs
in the reformed and pentecostal traditions.
I've attended many churches (many denominations and / or types)
in my life and have seen
spiritual abuse and manipulation
in EVERY single one of them.
Spiritual / emotional
abuse in the churches IS a pandemic, and it will continue until the control freaks finally remember that Jesus said «Feed My sheep» not «Beat My sheep».
«SGM believes that allowing courts to second - guess pastoral guidance would represent a blow to the First Amendment that would hinder, not help, families seeking
spiritual direction among other resources
in dealing with the trauma related to any sin including child sexual
abuse,» a representative of SGM said
in a November 14 statement.
In my experience, that one belief was used as justification for all kinds of physical and
spiritual abuse.
Paul, as a
spiritual father, did not engage
in spiritual child
abuse.
In the next post on this subject, we will look at the concept of
spiritual headship, which is also widely
abused.
Gregory's approach to pastoral care of the rich has exceptional subtlety, hinging importantly upon the biblical paradigms of Nathan before David and of David's care for Saul.34 When pastors come before the wealthy as
spiritual guides, they do well to remember what Nathan did
in the case of the poor man whom the rich man had
abused.
Many would see such
spiritual abuse and deny that it is harmful; they would say that it's (
in some instances) helpful admonishment.
But the point is that
IN THAT CONTEXT Calvinist theology was a much - needed pastoral and communal approach that helped people to break from the shackles of long - established systems of spiritual abuse by offering a different story to live by and a different kind of community to live i
IN THAT CONTEXT Calvinist theology was a much - needed pastoral and communal approach that helped people to break from the shackles of long - established systems of
spiritual abuse by offering a different story to live by and a different kind of community to live
inin.
I wish they could see the
spiritual abuse that is being heaped upon them and leave this church to find real freedom and love
in Jesus Christ.
And how can the predatory
abuse of human power
in prisons against the most vulnerable
in their midst be turned so as to allow willed
spiritual vulnerability to be empowered by grace?
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Abuse is defined as «to misuse, or to treat
in a harmful, injurious, or offensive way,» and includes physical, sexual, emotional, digital, economic, psychological, verbal,
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