Not exact matches
-- Remorse with gifts of flowers, trips, jewelry, dinners (whatever would be perceived as important to the
spouse or girlfriend)-- Negotiating or promising not to do it again — Anger that the
spouse is still sorry and hasn't truly forgiven them or anger
about their own inabilty to stop — Anxiety
about whatever trigger that caused the infidellity —
Infidelity Go back to the top of the list again
I must say also that «not knowing»
about the
infidelity does not mean that the betrayed
spouse is not being abused.
In any event, saying «everybody» cheats seems to be a stretch; while it's hard to get an exact number of people who are cheating because it's all self - reported (and you have to think that those who are lying to their
spouse are probably not going to be totally honest when it comes to a poll on
infidelity), some studies indicate it's
about 20 percent of married couples while others suggest it may be as high as 60 percent to 70 percent.
Financial
infidelity — lying to your
spouse about spending — is a marriage breaker.
The
infidelity may be as seemingly innocent as a wife lying to her husband
about the price of a pair of shoes, or it could be as disastrous as a husband concealing a $ 500,000 loss in the stock market, but its hallmark is a refusal to be honest with your
spouse about money.
According to a survey by the National Endowment for Financial Education, 42 % of Americans confess to «financial
infidelity,» which includes hiding a purchase, bank account, bill or cash from a partner and
spouse or lying
about the amount of debt they owe or income they earn.
Forget
about infidelity or lying to your
spouse about your finances: there are other, less - talked behaviors that are just as destructive to a marriage — and you and your partner are probably guilty of some of them.
Watch Susan Block, LMFT talk
about infidelity as well as ways to reconnect with your partner or
spouse on another edition of Divorce Connection Network.
So what does the existing research on reactions of learning
about a
spouse's / partner's online
infidelity tell us?
Following
infidelity,
spouses should communicate feelings
about the affair and the expectations each has moving forward.
You may be worried
about financial stress and
infidelity, while your
spouse is worried
about trust issues and lacking communication.
Written by a pre-eminent expert in the field who first and foremost is someone who has survived and thrived after her
spouse's
infidelities, she writes
about the successful marriage she and her husband have today.
Whether you have recently told your
spouse or partner
about an affair, or whether you have recently discovered
infidelity, finding competent help is a crucial first step toward healing.
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If a
spouse is practicing emotional
infidelity, it means he or she is having thoughts and feelings
about cheating, is fantasizing
about someone else, or is behaving as if they were single.
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infidelity and how to tell you partner or
spouse before they find out?
In contemplating the subject of this article, I considered writing
about divorcing an addicted
spouse or recovery from
infidelity.