The truth is, no matter how you and
your spouse feel about each other, there are significant money and property issues that must be handled before you can dissolve the marriage.
Not exact matches
Other times even before the birth, maybe it's the
spouse, or mother - in - law, or the mom
felt pressured into breastfeeding and it was something she was unsure
about from the get - go.
They were also asked to rate their level of agreement with statements
about their
spouses such as, «We have chemistry,» and «We are able to understand each
other's
feelings.»
Researchers asked 722 couples who were married an average of 39 years if they could talk to their
spouse about their worries, and if they believed their significant
other understands how they
feel.
They were also asked to rate their level of agreement with statements
about their
spouses such as, «we have chemistry,» and «we are able to understand each
other's
feelings.
As a result, one
spouse or the
other feels burdened or upset
about it.
The
other spouse may
feel they are ill equipped to negotiate the finances associated with the business, and may worry
about being taken advantage of by their
spouse.
When partners are compromising with each
other over the financial issue, in addition to openly discussing the financial concern, they are likely to
feel more pleased
about the interaction with their
spouse.
The items included «Both
spouses express
feelings to each
other about the financial matter in question» and «Both
spouses suggest possible solutions and compromises to the financial issue.»
In such marriages, one
spouse likely
feels betrayed, vulnerable, worthless, angry, and possibly depressed; the
other spouse may
feel guilty
about ending the marriage and yet angry
about the relentless blame and clinging behavior of his or her
spouse.
Sometimes, one of the
spouses may
feel uncomfortable talking
about their
feelings when the
other half is present.
For example, they might affirm the client's anger
about something the
other spouse has done during the marriage and encourage the client to use their anger (and the facts that led them to
feel angry) as a sort of weapon in the negotiations as would be true in litigation.
Some people come to counseling to work on memories or
feelings about past childhood abuse;
others seek counseling because they are currently in an abusive situation with a
spouse or significant
other.
In
other situations, one
spouse may
feel uncertain
about the future of the relationship and whether or not he or she wants to stay in it.
Many couples find that when they start hearing compliments and appreciation from their
spouse, they can't help
feel good
about it despite
other problems that exist.
You might, for example, have a weekly meeting during which you talk
about the state of your relationship, each resolve to do a favor for the
other every day, take 10 minutes each day to listen to your
spouse's
feelings, or spend the money you would spend on therapy on a romantic weekly outing.
Most importantly do not post your
feelings about your
spouse or any
other person with whom he or she is involved on social media.
And when confronting your
spouse about hurt
feelings or
other negative actions, it may be necessary to offer honest and difficult feedback
about your
spouse's behavior.