In situations where one
spouse feels a change to spousal maintenance is reasonable, and unless the final divorce order says otherwise, they can request a modification or termination through the court.
Not exact matches
While it's tempting to point fingers at our kids, our
spouse, or others for the challenges we're facing at home, it's essential to take a step back and examine ourselves — our past, our «baggage,» our own thoughts and
feelings — to recognize the role that we're playing and how we can
change it.
And so, yes it does
change your quality of life and so for those reasons particularly if you have a
spouse who is working really hard, we often when we are home and working hard you have 3 and 5 you look to your
spouse when they walk into the door and go «Here» just take this, you know, and rightfully so because we
feel overwhelmed but, at the same time they have had a long day but sometimes we forget that.
Citing previous studies, the authors hypothesized that women's sleep patterns reflect postmenopausal
changes, increased bladder instability and
feelings of isolation after the loss of a
spouse or lack of social support.
Initially, I
felt as if I had read this book before; depressed widower, unable to cope since the death of his
spouse, makes a life
changing decision - ultimately choosing life.
Are you genuinely excited by opportunities, or are you being pushed — by your
spouse's expectations, a
change at work that you don't want, or
feelings that you «should» be doing this?
Sharing personal thoughts or stories with a new friend of the opposite sex,
feeling a greater emotional intimacy with him or her than with a
spouse, comparing the friend to the
spouse (and listing why the
spouse doesn't add up), longing for the next contact or conversation,
changing normal routines or duties to spend more time with him or her, fantasizing about spending time with him or her and keeping conversations a secret from the
spouse — all are channel markers that mark the passage of friendship to an emotional affair.
Acceptance — Do I accept my
spouse is different —
feelings, personality, temperament — not try to control or
change?
What could you do to
change how you
feel about whatever your
spouse is doing?
If there are problems in the bedroom — say, one
spouse feels like sex isn't happening enough — simply talking about its lack of frequency is often a less effective approach to addressing the issue than what Gottman recommends: «Instead of isolating sex from the rest of your relationship, try a
change in attitude.
They remember the major events in each other's histories, and they keep updating their information as the facts and
feelings of their
spouse's world
change.
When your
spouse becomes colder towards you and your
feelings, and your sex life suffers significant
changes, it's a sign that you may need to visit a marriage counselor.
It is only human to get angry at times, but when you start
feeling anger and contempt towards your
spouse for extended periods of time, you should recognize that something has
changed and that an objective professional may be able to help give you strategies to regain what was once a happy, mutually - satisfying marriage.
Arguing about the issue is not going to help either one of you, and no matter how hard you try, you're not going to
change how your
spouse feels.
I find it interesting to see how the
feelings for one's
spouse can
change dramatically depending on whether the person has made recent contact with their outside squeeze.
Your
spouse is always
changing, and it is important that you are in tune with their
changing thoughts and
feelings.
For real
change most
spouses need specific tools that help them to talk about differences without arguing and keep you both
feeling heard.
Fortunately, you can learn new skills for how to communicate with your
spouse and you can
change the way your marriage
feels as a result.
I suggest spacing out the marriage counselling sessions when both
spouses feel they have made significant progress
and maintained positive
changes over time.
Instead,
changing little daily habits can make a big difference in how you
feel about your marriage and most importantly, how you behave toward your
spouse.
I'm sure you
feel like if your
spouse would just
change in certain areas your marriage and life would be great.
Focusing on ensuring your
spouse feels loved may help initiate
changes in the relationship.
When people don't
feel loved by their
spouse it can cause them to
change how they treat their
spouse.
Basically it explains the fact that all marriages go through
changes and transitions; that it's normal to have moments when you
feel like your relationship with your
spouse is better than it's ever been and also to have moments when you're wondering if your union will last.
At this point you will
feel that something has drastically
changed in your relationship and that you and your
spouse are drifting apart.
Even if your
spouse did
change, he or she wouldn't
feel very happy about the relationship until you made some
changes yourself.
Trying to
change your
spouse will likely cause him or her to
feel grieved, discouraged, anxious, and angry, which will make him or her to back away from you and resist you.
Regardless if you are gay in a straight relationship or a straight
spouse dealing with sadness and betrayal, relationship or individual counseling can help you as you process these painful
feelings and
changes in your life.
You're trying to love and support your
spouse, and at the same time you
feel betrayed, angry, and resentful that you now have this life -
changing challenge you really don't want.
Many people are too afraid of
change so they would rather live in mediocre marriages, some
feel stuck in the process, some are blind - sided by a
spouse's request for a divorce, and some are trying to process what's happening so they can make the first step.