When
spouses disagree on what the date of separation is, it becomes a matter to be determined later, either by agreement or by a Judge.
In a contested divorce,
spouses disagree on the divorce.
If you and
your spouse disagree on discipline, examine your parenting styles.
A contested divorce doesn't necessarily mean you and
your spouse disagree on every issue involved in ending your marriage.
If you and
your spouse disagree on even one small thing — such as how to structure parenting time so you can each see your children on holidays — your agreement isn't global, and you'll likely have to go to trial to have the judge decide any remaining issues.
If you and
your spouse disagree on critical parenting issues, you need to discuss those issues, and find some way to resolve them, during your divorce.
If you and
your spouse disagree on the divorce, you will likely file for a contested divorce.
If your divorce is contested because you and
your spouse disagree on at least one term of the divorce, your spouse has about 20 days after being served with the divorce papers in which to file an answer to your petition with the court.
If you and
your spouse disagree on property, assets or alimony, you may need to attend a meditation conference.
If you and
your spouse disagree on some of the suggested changes, we simply continue the mediation process until we resolve the conflict.
Not exact matches
Even though you or your
spouse may
disagree on parenting style, this does not create a basis for limiting the other's time with the child.
It is not uncommon for divorcing
spouses to
disagree on grounds for divorce or proposed settlements; however, the advent of «no - fault» divorce in New York has greatly reduced the frequency of disputes
on this issue.
Usually the
spouses will
disagree on the value of their assets and the influence each has had
on the success, or failure, of the investment.
Having a common goal can help you keep you and your
spouse focused
on the bigger picture even when you initially
disagree over how to make that goal happen.
If you and your
spouse disagree, the judge may require a hearing
on the matter of custody, which would allow you and the Guardian ad Litem to discuss custody in a formal setting.
Even if mediation or discussions out of court result in a mutual agreement
on the issue, either
spouse may change the proceeding back into a contested divorce with a new disagreement, for example, by
disagreeing about spousal support.
However, if there are aspects of the marital settlement that you
disagree on, then a divorce mediator might be able to help you and your
spouse sort through that agreement in an amicable way.
Decision for divorce is mutual You have no desire to revive marriage You would like to stay
on decent terms with
spouse You both understand your financial situation Your
spouse hasn't lied to you about anything important You can
disagree with your
spouse in a civil way You are not easily intimidated by your
spouse Physical violence is not an issue in your relationship
For example, if you
disagree on parenting issues and you tend to get passionate when discussing this, talk to your
spouse ahead of time about how to resolve some of your issues without blowing up.
The husband and wife (or
spouses - to - be) fill out the forms separately, marking each of 150 + statements based
on to what extent they agree or
disagree with them.
The nine - item Perceptions of Collaboration Questionnaire (PCQ) assessed
spouses» perceptions of collaboration when solving everyday problems
on 5 - point scales (1 = strongly
disagree to 5 = strongly agree).
Some indications that your
spouse, partner, husband or wife has gone too far include: getting angry at you when you
disagree; punching holes in walls; throwing objects (aimed at nothing or at you); destroying belongings; threatening to hurt you or leave you for the purpose of intimidating you; physically preventing you from leaving home; putting pressure
on you not to work when you want to; insulting or ridiculing you; becoming jealous of your friends, activities, or hobbies; making you account for your whereabouts at all times; using promises and lies to manipulate you or to get you to forgive their angry or threatening behavior; isolating you from friends or family; making you ask permission to go out or make a career move; and threatening to harm your possessions, pets, or children.
my
spouse and I seem to
disagree on everything — how can we possibly come to a mutually satisfying agreement?
Chances are, however, you and your
spouse do
disagree on a few matters.