My husband and I also shared childcare responsibility equally until our daughter was well over a year, when he went back to work full - time and she started daycare (up until that point, we'd both worked part - time) and he's much better at many things than I am (mealtimes and bathtime and
bedtime, pretty significantly, while just personality-wise, I'm a lot better at stuff like, having hydrocortisone cream
for bug bites, and remembering to put on the bug
spray in the first place, etc.) But, especially at the beginning, it really did seem as though I was much more attached?
I
sprayed it on his bed inside his crate about 10 minutes before
bedtime and he slept through the night there on out (except
for potty breaks in the middle of the night).