And if you find there are certain things your partner does that trigger disproportionate reactions
from you, you can see that as a clue to revealing any unresolved
trauma clinging to your present self, and
start working to
heal it.
If people don't have the opportunity to
heal from trauma, it's likely that their experiences and negative behaviours will
start to impact on others, particularly children who are susceptible to significant developmental damage when they experience
trauma at a young age.