People have
accepted this
notion when it comes to carbon dioxide or the chemicals that eat away at the ozone layer, but Jaffe is finding that they are
still coming to terms with the reality that it applies to industrial pollutants in general.
However, once we get through that wretched stage, while the going is a bit easier, it will
still take a long time to: See ourselves as truly separate from our spouse; Be able to even think about committing to another relationship; Stop ruminating about the marriage — what you did wrong, what they did wrong; No longer feel triggered by what our spouse does; Actually
accept the
notion of our spouse with another partner; Honestly feel happy again.