A strong attachment to the mother during the early years may have a positive neurobehavioral effect.
Children with secure attachments demonstrated
a strong attachment to the mother, while children with insecure attachments exhibited a variety of unusual and unhealthy reactions, including becoming angry with the mother upon her return.
Not exact matches
Each woman who becomes a
mother wants
to have a solid,
strong, and healthy
attachment with her baby.
>> Second, in response
to Abbi, it seems
to me that if there is a
strong primary
attachment, say with the
mother, she would already be aware of the problem and taking steps
to stop it.
Many parents worry that if
mother was unavailable due
to illness when she had her baby, or a child was adopted at age six, the window of opportunity for establishing a
strong parent / child
attachment will have been irretrievably lost, and their youngster will be incapable of forging deep
attachments as an adult.
Research from the University of Minnesota has shown that children age 2 and up who lack secure
attachments to their
mothers have higher rushes of cortisol during even mildly stressful events, such as getting a vaccination shot, than do youngsters with
strong parental bonds.
The development of
strong attachments between
mothers and children is essential
to promote the long - term welfare of children.
However nothing — absolutely nothing — in any research by Lamb or anyone else has found that infants «need» more than one caregiver, that they do better with more than one caregiver, that they need a father any more than they need a grandmother or older brother, or that any of these secondary
attachments,
to the extent they do form, are of equal importance
to an infant's having a
strong and healthy bond with its primary caregiver
mother.
Misrepresentation — «A study of 90 Oklahoma college students found that a
strong attachment to fathers had a larger impact on young adult self esteem than
attachment to their
mothers.»
Cicirelli 1993 study of caregiving daughters revealed that
attachment had a direct and positive relationship with the care that daughters were providing
to their
mothers:
Stronger attachment bonds were associated with greater amounts of care, independent of
mothers» level of functional dependency.
Two major reasons for this view are (1) the
strong similarities between monkeys and humans in social behavior, endocrine function, brain structure, and degree and duration of
mother - infant nurturance (Harlow and Zimmerman 1959; Kalin and Shelton 2003; Mendoza and Mason 1997), or, in the unique case of titi monkeys, the extent of biparental care (Hennessy 1997); and (2) the extent
to which monkeys fulfill Ainsworth's criteria of
attachment (Ainsworth 1972), namely, unequivocal distress upon complete separation from the
attachment figure and alleviation of this distress (both behavioral and physiological) upon reunion / interaction with the
attachment figure (Mendoza and Mason 1997).
In addition, the
strong correlation between
mother's own
attachment schema's and their infants»
attachment classification suggests a transmission of
attachment style from
mother to infant (van Ijzendoorn and Bakermans - Kranenburg 1996).
Although Bowlby may not dispute that young children form multiple
attachments, he still contends that the
attachment to the
mother is unique in that it is the first
to appear and remains the
strongest of all.
From birth through infancy and childhood there are many steps that lead
to a
strong mother - infant
attachment.
It explains why
strong, consistent and healthy
attachment figures are so important
to children and why children that are neglected, abandoned, or separated from their
mother may become frantic or cry uncontrollably until contact is made again.
Numerous studies support the
strong correspondence between
mothers» states of the mind with respect
to attachment and their children's
attachment (van IJzendoorn, 1995a).
Social support had a
stronger effect on security of
attachment in the context of irritable babies, such that when infants were temperamentally difficult,
mothers who felt unsupported were more likely
to have insecurely attached infants than
mothers who felt supported.
Results suggested that with assimilation: (1) securely attached children fluctuated less in their daily
attachment - related appraisals; (2) fluctuations were related
to conflicts with
mother; (3) this relation was
stronger for less securely attached children.