The crucial
difference between two ways of looking at human problems is the
difference between trying to manage history according to plan, and a responsible planning within a history which is more
successfully dealt with when we recognize the unmanageable factors within it.
The couple has had its ups and downs but for the most part, they say that they have worked on their
differences on issues like money and budgeting, parenting practices, and
dealing with expectations from in - laws, quite
successfully.