Hedy will decode the complex distinction between the reactive,
adaptive survival dance, and the intentional dance of life in connection, with a special focus on the disconnection and the re-connection after an affair.
has
a survival dance and a sacred dance, but the survival dance must come first.
Our survival dance, a foundational component of self - reliance, is what we do for a living — our way of supporting ourselves physically and economically... Everybody has to have a survival dance.
and requires the continuous consciousness that the «
survival dance» is a downward pull, and that the «Yes to life» is an upward trend needing constant and disciplined attention, focus and investment.
Adaptive patterns are the «
survival dance» or the «hijack by extra-terrestrials» to whom the relationship has given room - and - board
You will discover a structured, integrative, relational model for successfully guiding your couples to dissolve their reactive «
survival dance», and for empowering them to welcome and embrace full aliveness in connection.
I want them to leave knowing that the «
survival dance» that they have been dancing for such a long time is «not» who they are in their essence.
You will discover a structured, integrative, relational model for successfully guiding your couples to rise above their reactive «
survival dance,» and for empowering them to welcome and embrace full aliveness in connection.
Let's get acquainted with the survival patterns that create an automatic, energetic, reactive «
survival dance.»
This change is a visceral, cellular, internal shift in which old Implicit Learnings which underlie the couple's «
survival dance» are nullified or weakened, and a new coherent, life - affirming and creative reality can be welcomed.
Learning about
our survival dance we realized that we simply did not have the right tools for what we wanted the most — to deeply unite, to really meet, soul to soul, with each other.
In my life and in my work, I am more and more coming from the space of the encounter, rather than from the space of
my survival dance!.
the distinction between the unconscious, reactive «
Survival Dance» vs. the intentional embrace of the «Encounter»
She will describe how she created this relational diagnosis by decoding the complex distinction between the adaptive, reactive couple's «
survival dance» and the attuned, empathic connection between two intentional partners in relationship.
Training Program for Therapists Watch Hedy Schleifer as she guides a couple from their unconscious, reactive «
survival dance», to the realm of the «Encounter», where they experience joyful relaxation in connection.