As a psychotherapist, I work with couples and individuals who present with many
symptoms of narcissistic abuse or describe patterns of emotional abuse in their primary relationships.
Not exact matches
For example, in the 1 % or 2 %
of the cases in which the child's allegation
of sexual
abuse incest against a parent is induced and elicited by the pathogenic parenting practices
of a
narcissistic / borderline parent, in those 1 % — 2 %
of cases the likelihood that the child's
symptoms were induced or elicited by the pathogenic parenting practices
of a
narcissistic / borderline parent is 100 % — in those cases.
The presence in the child's
symptom display
of the three characteristic diagnostic indicators (i.e., the «psychological fingerprints»)
of the child's psychological influence and control by a
narcissistic / (borderline) parent represents sufficient and definitive clinical evidence that the symptomatic child - initiated cut - off
of the child's relationship with the other parent is the direct result
of the pathogenic parenting practices
of a
narcissistic / (borderline) parent (i.e., the allied and supposedly «favored» parent), who is using the child in a role - reversal relationship as a «regulatory other» (see my blog essay: Parental Alienation as Child
Abuse: The Regulating Other) for the psychopathology
of the
narcissistic / (borderline) parent.
The need for a protective separation
of the child is made necessary on two grounds, 1) to protect the child from continued exposure to the psychological child
abuse associated with the pathogenic parenting
of the
narcissistic / (borderline) parent, and 2) to prevent psychological harm to the child during the active phase
of treatment as a result
of being turned into a «psychological battleground» by the continued active resistance
of the
narcissistic / (borderline) parent to the goals
of therapy, and from the continued motivated efforts
of the
narcissistic / (borderline) parent to maintain the child's symptomatic state even as therapy seeks to resolve the child's
symptoms.