Can
you talk to your partner honestly about feeling the «spark» has gone and try to get some fun and interest back into your lives - and maybe try some couple counselling together?
During therapy sessions, you will learn how to
talk to your partner honestly and respectfully about subjects big and small.
Sounds extreme, but
talking to your partner honestly can help you find a situation that works for you both.
Not exact matches
The extent of what is not open
to discussion may vary considerably according
to the different
partners; it may, in certain cases, even be reduced
to the conviction that men must
talk to each other fairly and
honestly.
We're going
to have
to find a
partner who understands what «We're both in this together» means, and we're going
to have
to talk about our expectations around chores and child care, and we're going
to have
to be willing
to not fall into gendered divisions of labor once a child comes along, and we're going
to have
to commit
to talking honestly about our expectations.
Want
to know how
to talk honestly about monogamy with your
partner?
The researcher who published the study thought this is because when choosing a mate, it is in a woman's best interest
to get men
to open up and
talk honestly to give her a better idea of whether they would be good long - term
partners.
It seems healthy
to want
to make sure your relationship stays peaceful and no one gets upset... but if that comes at the cost of
talking honestly to your
partner about your feelings, and having
to keep things
to yourself in order
to avoid arguments, then it's an incredibly toxic habit that needs
to be broken.
If your
partner won't go with you, I wonder whether you could go on your own, at least
to start with,
to get helpwith feeling safe in
talking honestly to your
partner about your concerns.
You must be willing
to talk honestly and openly about what happened, if that is what your
partner wants, and
to keep your
partner informed about your whereabouts at all times.
The fear or anxiety of openly and
honestly making ourselves known
to our
partner needs
to be calmed so that steps can be taken
to talk about each other's fears and join forces against them.
So what if we were able
to talk openly and
honestly about this subject and include our
partners in the process?
Restructuring the bond between
partners using «hold me tight» conversation where both
partners are encouraged
to talk honestly about their fears and desires.