I doubt you recall this but on one of your very first posts
about adoption — I think it was when you were asking «how do you know it's right» type of thing, I said you've got to pay attention to the signs, and then went on to
talk about some weird stuff that happened to us during my
adoption journey (my daughters were born in China, and after turning in the paperwork for my first daughter, I began to run into single mom's with Chinese children EVERYWHERE).