Bring together this natural impulsiveness and lack of caution with that 800 - pound gorilla known as the sex drive — one of biology's most formidable instincts — then add the pervasive sexual imagery of our culture, and you have a combined force that reduces
the teaching of abstinence to the moral equivalent of crossing our fingers and hoping for the best.
Not exact matches
While some programs also encourage
abstinence or noncoital sex, most are concerned with
teaching techniques for «safe sex»; offspring (and disease) are thus treated as (equally) avoidable side effects
of sexuality, whose true purpose is only individual pleasure.
There are people who
teach abstinence, as well as candidly discuss the ramifications
of sex on multiple levels.
Lost was a corporate observance that set the contours and rhythm
of life, that gave meaning to feasting and
abstinence and
taught renunciation as well as affirmation.
If the teacher is «co-habiting» with another human being, male or female, same sex or other sex, without benefit
of matrimony, how does that affect that person's capacity to
teach with integrity on the Church's requirement
of chastity and
abstinence before marriage?
The blog goes on to say that in the Church's schools, the subject will be «rooted in the
teachings of the Church», including «the importance
of trust, loyalty, fidelity and the Christian understanding
of marriage as the context for sexual relationships, as well as the understanding
of abstinence and celibacy as positive life choices».
In the context
of the total document and magisterial
teaching on human sexuality, it is quite evident that «self - control» means total sexual
abstinence for homosexual Christians.
Up to now, spouses who really sought to live their conjugal relationship as God wished, to sanctify themselves in and through their marriage, received little orientation from the
teaching of the Church, aside from the idea that a certain
abstinence is a recommendable means not just
of family planning but
of positive growth in married sanctity.
Well let's see...
abstinence is preached /
taught mostly in the Bible Belt and the Bible Belt has BY FAR the highest rates
of teen pregnancy in the country (while the liberal NorthEast... see Massachusetts above has the lowest rates
of teen pregnancy).
It is sad that many conservative parents try and
teach abstinence only and don't have the addendum sane parents tack on
of»... but if you are going to ignore my warnings and do it anyway, at least be safe and use protection...».
`... in later times some will depart from the faith by devoting themselves to deceitful spirits and
teachings of demons, through the insincerity
of liars whose consciences are seared, who forbid marriage and require
abstinence from foods...» (verses 1 - 3, ESV)
The fact that the students from
abstinence backgrounds frequently begin drinking outside their homes, without their parents» knowledge and in opposition to their religious
teachings (which would tend to arouse guilt), and with no ethical guidelines from their churches to distinguish responsible from irresponsible drinking, also may contribute to the high incidence
of problem drinking behavior.
In spite
of the
abstinence teachings of their church, 70 percent
of Methodist students drink.
1 Timothy 4:1 - 3 1Now the Spirit expressly says that in later times some will depart from the faith by devoting themselves to deceitful spirits and
teachings of demons, 2through the insincerity
of liars whose consciences are seared, 3 who forbid marriage and require
abstinence from foods that God created to be received with thanksgiving by those who believe and know the truth.
Even though I know you're not making the argument, that argument is similar to «A lot
of teens won't wear the condoms if we
teach them to, so we should just
teach abstinence only.»
Teen
abstinence comes to mind: if we just tell teens not to have sex at all instead
of teaching them safe ways to avoid pregnancy and sexually transmitted infections, then teen pregnancy and STI rates among teens will plummet, right?
I liken it to safe sex education: If you only preach
abstinence then those who will do otherwise (for many reason) will not have the information to keep themselves and others safe, but if you speak
of the benefits
of abstinence and acknowledge it won't work for everyone and then
teach safe sex on top
of it, well, you're making sure more people are safe.
According to Cunha, one
of the novel aspects
of the research project conducted at the Psychiatry Institute
of Hospital das Clínicas, FM - USP's
teaching and general hospital, was the measurement
of cognitive functions during controlled
abstinence.
Legally, what to
teach kids about sex at school is frequently left to the discretion
of local school boards, which often hire outside
abstinence - only contractors to do the job.
Because
of overwhelmingly increased federal funding for
abstinence - only courses, that is often what students are
taught.
During a cholera epidemic in 1832, he went around
teaching and lecturing on the importance
of fresh fruit and vegetables and whole grains in the diet, as well as
abstinence from meat and meat products, alcohol and other stimulants or narcotics, correct sleeping, bathing, clothing and exercise habits to avoid cholera, with astounding results.
I help women find freedom from alcohol on their own terms, which often means
teaching moderation strategies instead
of focusing exclusively on
abstinence.
But the majority
of abstinence training only
teaches half
of the.
The author
of a best - selling
abstinence manifesto is reconsidering the lessons he
taught to millions.
It reminded me
of the hapless drive to
teach abstinence only sex education in high schools.
In the case
of sex education in schools,
teaching abstinence only has not been working.
The administration
of New Jersey Governor Jon Corzine cautioned that «accepting federal
abstinence - only dollars may, in fact, cost the state money because students may require additional sexuality education to clarify the partial and misinformation that is
taught in
abstinence - only - until - marriage programs.»
As one
of the nation's leading providers
of medically accurate sex education, Planned Parenthood works closely with the LGBT community on comprehensive sex education that
teaches about
abstinence as well as contraception, healthy communication about sex, body image, parent - teen communication and gender identity, responsible decision making, and prevention
of sexually transmitted infections, including HIV / AIDS.
Over the weekend, 15 editorials echoed Planned Parenthood's push to end dangerous «
abstinence - only» programs that don't work and to instead invest funding in comprehensive sex education that
teaches teens about
abstinence as well as contraception, healthy communication, responsible decision making, and prevention
of sexually transmitted infections.
Planned Parenthood Advocates in Missouri testified in support
of the bill while underscoring that Missouri's current sex education undermines the promise
of these bills because it allows for
abstinence - only - until - marriage programs and prohibits school districts from bringing in expert sex educators to
teach students.
Today, Massachusetts schools
teach a patchwork
of curricula — some provide effective sex education, but many
teach ineffective
abstinence - only programs, or none at all.
After all, studies show that fewer adolescents are learning about methods
of birth control from medically accurate sex ed sources, and more are being
taught abstinence - only - until - marriage (AOUM).
Nearly six in ten residents (58 %) oppose the provision
of state and / or federal funds for education promoting
abstinence - only - until - marriage that prohibits
teaching about the use
of condoms and contraception for the prevention
of unintended pregnancy, HIV / AIDS and STDs.
Opponents
of the program say it's a waste
of financial resources and redundant because comprehensive sexuality education, which includes
abstinence, is already
taught through the public schools.
Worse yet, the federal government spends $ 90 million annually on sexual health education programs that
teach sexual
abstinence instead
of equipping young people with the tools and resources they need.
Guess this didn't include
teaching the importance
of abstinence prior to marriage.