Not exact matches
If you feel unsure of your
parenting choices because they are different
than the «mainstream,» I doubt the answer is to boast about breastfeeding and co sleeping while trying to make moms who
formula feed feel like shit just so that you can give yourself a pat on the back.
That kind of
parenting is a lot harder to pull off
than deciding whether to breastfeed or
formula feed.
Occasionally I do feel pressured by
parents struggling to make ends meet to diagnose a CMPI or reflux so the kid can get free milk, but rather that
than having a family with a sick baby struggling to find money to
feed themselves and the baby who needs an expensive hydrolysed
formula.
Feeding babies something other
than breast milk or
formula is a brand new experience for both
parent and child.
Having gone over to artificial
formula and experienced
feeding or absorbtion problems, many
parents and even doctors erroneously assume that soy
formula will be «better»
than the cow - based
formula.
Many
parents do report that
formula -
fed babies go longer stretches between
feedings than breastfed babies.
After about 4 months,
formula -
fed babies will gain at a slightly faster rate because
formula has more calories
than breast milk, and
parents tend to push baby to finish bottles (as opposed to letting them stop at the breast whenever they want).
To maintain and increase their profits, breastmilk substitutes companies need to persuade
parents to
formula feed rather
than breastfeed, to choose their
formula milk rather
than a competitor's, and to use their brand of baby food as early and as much as possible.
In 2007 UNICEF released a film called «
Formula for Disaster» showing the reality of formula promotion in the Philippines and how parents are being misled into believing their children will be more intelligent if they are fed on formula rather than bre
Formula for Disaster» showing the reality of
formula promotion in the Philippines and how parents are being misled into believing their children will be more intelligent if they are fed on formula rather than bre
formula promotion in the Philippines and how
parents are being misled into believing their children will be more intelligent if they are
fed on
formula rather than bre
formula rather
than breastfed.
Since breastfed babies are statistically healthier
than their
formula fed peers, the
parents of breastfed babies spend less time out of work taking care of sick children.
The essence of attachment
parenting is loving care that features a reciprocal, relational approach that goes deeper
than this simple
formula: «The three basic tenets are breast -
feeding (sometimes into toddlerhood), co-sleeping (inviting babies into the parental bed or pulling a bassinet alongside it) and «baby wearing,» in which infants are literally attached to their mothers via slings.»
Rather
than feel guilty,
parents should reflect on the advantages of
formula feeding.
Dr James McKenna recommends that
formula -
fed babies room - share with their
parents rather
than co-sleep, because mothers who
formula feed their babies do not demonstrate the same responsive night - time
parenting practices as breastfeeding mothers.33
One study reported that the
parents of breastfed babies averaged 40 - 45 minutes more sleep time
than did the
parents of
formula -
fed babies (Doan et al 2007).
If they
feed the baby, it is on a
parent - imposed schedule that does not take the child's needs into consideration (e.g. giving 2 large bottles of
formula per day to a newborn rather
than smaller more frequent
feedings throughout the day).
However, not every situation allows for a baby to be breast
fed and more often
than not,
parents must make the decision to switch to infant
formula.
Breastfed infants may be more alert, cry less, and be better able to engage in interactions with their
parents than formula -
fed infants.
Dear Janine: Vegan
parents who can not breast
feed often choose organic soy milk, believing it to be less toxic
than commercially available infant
formulas.
Parents were being told (by a leading pediatrician no less) that
formula was better for babies
than breast
feeding.