Use «I» statements and invite your spouse to work with you rather
than placing blame.
Divorce mediation is a form of alternative dispute resolution in which divorcing couples work with the mediator to create solutions that benefit the entire family rather
than placing blame
Try to work together as a family to cope with the crisis, rather
than placing blame advises psychologist Philip «Dr. Phil» McGraw in his website article «How Families Can Overcome Difficult Times.»
Rather
than placing the blame on people's injuries, focus the attention on the abhorrent driving one sees on a daily basis in BC.
Rather
than placing blame and sanctioning students, educators must seek to understand the situation and any harm that has resulted.
Why should Trump choose to take responsibility for the failure to reach a DACA deal that would let them stay, rather
than placing the blame right where it belongs?
Rather
than placing the blame for unjust institutionalization on an oppressive patriarchy, the author points out that women were, and are, often complicit in the creation and social enforcement of oppressive social norms.
Rather
than place blame and point fingers, New York State will help prepare residents for future jobs and promote economic growth while aiding middle class and poor New Yorkers, the governor said.
Not exact matches
nothing makes the atheist more ticked off more
than when you bring up GOD... God gets all the
blame for all the tragedy in the world... If there wasnt a god in the first
place, humans would not know tragedy or injustice when we see it... it would be a non-issue to us... survival of the fittest would not permit the emotions of love, compassion, empathy... Darwininian theory could not allow any of those and many other of the best of people's capacity for caring to surface... You cant explain it away by synapse or neurons... without a Supreme Being, there would be no sense of justice or injustice, we would not call it anything because there is no Ultimate Moral Standard to compare it.
It makes me sick to my stomach to put the
blame on any other person for what happened
than the one who did it in the first
place.
I think we're too quick to
place the
blame elsewhere rather
than look at the content of the human heart.
We could have stopped this 2 seasons ago, now we must pay consequence, we want team that can win big things, we already have it, we just need someone who will lead them to that goal, you cant win trophys when your manager go in public and says our opponents are just too good, its not that chelsea is unbeateble, our manager has no desire anymore, and i do nt
blame him for that, he is just doing his job, we fans are final judge, if you are ok with 4
place,
than enjoy this mediocre simple!!!
Can you
blame Sanchez for not passing the ball to WIDEBECK, lately this man is never in position, WHY because he is defending and running all over the
place, the clumsy GIROUD let's face it, he is better
than WIDEBECK and works better for our team game, but far from being a surgical finisher.
Please, do not give me excuses about injuries etc, we have had those the most since 2004, who to
blame than Wenger, who has overplayed and played players in wrong position and did not purchase the RIGHT players in RIGHT
places during summer, defensive midfield player and center back to cover Verminator.
The protests are aimed at BOTH Kronke and Wenger.They are both to
blame for our demise.How Wenger was given a TWO YEAR CONTRACT last year was the final straw for the majority of fans who were demanding change.It was obvious Wenger was not only unable to maintain the 4th
Place Trophy he had for years stayed was a Trophy in all but name, but would also fail to prevent us becoming nothing other
than also rans within the chasing pack.And where are we now?SIXTH
PLACE.That is down on last years pathetic effort and we show no signs of being able to improve with Wenger still in charge.
What exactly has Coquelin even done wrong?He was one of our best defenders in our previous match and I remember him making three important interceptions which also included a fantastic tackle on De-Bruyne to stop a dangerpus counter.He's always
blamed ignorantly despite being a fantastic tackler.It will be annoying to see him on the bench vs Tottenham one again when we know he can defend very well if
placed in the midfield.Wilshere is better
than Xhaka and Ramsey but will still be benched come this week unless there's a serious injury.What kind of team at all do we have?
Its interesting to note that Ramsey who I believe had a pretty mediocre season last year with us appeared to play to his full potential in the euro's which means to me that he's either not surrounded by the right balance at Arsenal OR he want to be noticed to move on from us, and who could
blame him really we all know that the manager and board have no will to ein the PL as they
place thier profits far higfher
than thier silverware cabinet and that Im sorry to say is a fact
Time for some brutal honesty... this team, as it stands, is in no better position to compete next season
than they were 12 months ago, minus the fact that some fans have been easily snowed by the acquisition of Lacazette, the free transfer LB and the release of Sanogo... if you look at the facts carefully you will see a team that still has far more questions
than answers... to better show what I mean by this statement I will briefly discuss the current state of affairs on a position - by - position basis... in goal we have 4 potential candidates, but in reality we have only 1 option with any real future and somehow he's the only one we have actively tried to get rid of for years because he and his father were a little too involved on social media and he got caught smoking (funny how people still defend Wiltshire under the same and far worse circumstances)... you would think we would want to keep any goaltender that Juventus had interest in, as they seem to have a pretty good history when it comes to that position... as far as the defenders on our current roster there are only a few individuals whom have the skill and / or youth worthy of our time and / or investment, as such we should get rid of anyone who doesn't meet those simple requirements, which means we should get rid of DeBouchy, Gibbs, Gabriel, Mertz and loan out Chambers to see if last seasons foray with Middlesborough was an anomaly or a prediction of things to come... some fans have lamented wildly about the return of Mertz to the starting lineup due to his FA Cup performance but these sort of pie in the sky meanderings are indicative of what's wrong with this club and it's wishy - washy fan - base... in addition to these moves the club should aggressively pursue the acquisition of dominant and mobile CB to stabilize an all too fragile defensive group that has self - destructed on numerous occasions over the past 5 seasons... moving forward and building on our need to re-establish our once dominant presence throughout the middle of the park we need to target a CDM then do whatever it takes to get that player into the fold without any of the usual nickel and diming we have become famous for (this kind of ruthless haggling has cost us numerous special players and certainly can't help make the player in question feel good about the way their future potential employer feels about them)... in order for us to become dominant again we need to be strong up the middle again from Goalkeeper to CB to DM to ACM to striker, like we did in our most glorious years before and during Wenger's reign... with this in mind, if we want Ozil to be that dominant attacking midfielder we can't keep leaving him exposed to constant ridicule about his lack of defensive prowess and provide him with the proper players in the final third... he was never a good defensive player in Real or with the German National squad and they certainly didn't suffer as a result of his presence on the pitch... as for the rest of the midfield the
blame falls squarely in the hands of Wenger and Gazidis, the fact that Ramsey, Ox, Sanchez and even Ozil were allowed to regularly start when none of the aforementioned had more
than a year left under contract is criminal for a club of this size and financial might... the fact that we could find money for Walcott and Xhaka, who weren't even guaranteed starters, means that our whole business model needs a complete overhaul... for me it's time to get rid of some serious deadweight, even if it means selling them below what you believe their market value is just to simply right this ship and change the stagnant culture that currently exists... this means saying goodbye to Wiltshire, Elneny, Carzola, Walcott and Ramsey... everyone, minus Elneny, have spent just as much time on the training table as on the field of play, which would be manageable if they weren't so inconsistent from a performance standpoint (excluding Carzola, who is like the recent version of Rosicky — too bad, both will be deeply missed)... in their
places we need to bring in some proven performers with no history of injuries... up front, although I do like the possibilities that a player like Lacazette presents, the fact that we had to wait so many years to acquire some true quality at the striker position falls once again squarely at the feet of Wenger... this issue highlights the ultimate scam being perpetrated by this club since the arrival of Kroenke: pretend your a small market club when it comes to making purchases but milk your fans like a big market club when it comes to ticket prices and merchandising... I believe the reason why Wenger hasn't pursued someone of Henry's quality, minus a fairly inexpensive RVP, was that he knew that they would demand players of a similar ilk to be brought on board and that wasn't possible when the business model was that of a «selling» club... does it really make sense that we could only make a cheeky bid for Suarez, or that we couldn't get Higuain over the line when he was being offered up for half the price he eventually went to Juve for, or that we've only paid any interest to strikers who were clearly not going to press their current teams to let them go to Arsenal like Benzema or Cavani... just part of the facade that finally came crashing down when Sanchez finally called their bluff... the fact remains that no one wants to win more
than Sanchez, including Wenger, and although I don't agree with everything that he has done off the field, I would much rather have Alexis front and center
than a manager who has clearly bought into the Kroenke model in large part due to the fact that his enormous ego suggests that only he could accomplish great things without breaking the bank... unfortunately that isn't possible anymore as the game has changed quite dramatically in the last 15 years, which has left a largely complacent and complicit Wenger on the outside looking in... so don't
blame those players who demanded more and were left wanting... don't
blame those fans who have tried desperately to raise awareness for several years when cracks began to appear...
place the
blame at the feet of those who were well aware all along of the potential pitfalls of just such a plan but continued to follow it even when it was no longer a financial necessity, like it ever really was...
3 quality players in the window might get us 4th
place but to be honest giving the frog joker a lifeline is not what is needed at arsenal... the man has to go so it is a matter of whatever it takes... the thought of him still being around come may just makes my stomach churn... and new year revelries cant be
blamed... any more
than refs or world cups or the weather or alien powers....
We
place too much
blame on outside factors rather
than our own capabilities.
Walcotts looking for obscene wages but who can
blame him for looking for 40/50 grand more
than Squillachi, Chamakh, Bendtner and Diaby... question is how they are on 50 per week in the first
place, ludicrous considering we cudnt give Song a payrise yet these guys who havnt merited any wage in my opinion are on drastically inflated wages, which also now makes it almost impossible to get rid of these guys as a result and they can now sit on their arses costing us a fortune and they leave for free at their contract end.
Blame can be
placed on the management or the board rather
than the expectations in the first
place.
Rather
than place guilt on shoppers or
blame brands, the goal of Slavery Footprint is to personalize this complex issue.
(And the worst illness we ever got was a cold, and even then it'd be impossible to «
blame» the shared toys at a library group rather
than the 2380374048534908 million other possible germy
places / people they came in contact with.)
«A lot of diversion took
place here and
blaming someone other
than those who put us in the problem we are in now,» he said.
«You may not know Jerry Zandstra, but all of you have a «Jerry Zandstra» in your state: someone who decides, out of the blue, to seek statewide office; pursues that office through less
than honorable tactics; fails to collect the minimum number of signatures to even be
placed on the ballot; and then
blames the State Party and its chairman for his failures,» Anuzis wrote in his response.
When things don't go according to their plan or they feel criticized or less
than perfect, the narcissist
places all the
blame and responsibility on you.
Mildred's teenage daughter, Angela (Kathryn Newton, in flashback), died less
than a year before, raped and then set on fire; the scorched
place where her body burned is still visible; Mildred is seething at the lack of progress in the case and is laying the
blame squarely at the feet of the local police chief, Bill Willoughby (Woody Harrelson), who, while understandably unhappy with the 40 - foot - high attacks on his character, is not unsympathetic to Mildred's pain.
Christopher Orr of The Atlantic (this last one was sent to me by my friend Dan Gottheimer, and
places a lot of the
blame on Will Smith, rather
than M. Night Shyamalan — I say, who cares who's responsible?)
The wounds of the Holocaust are fresh and while much of the
blame was
placed on Hitler, virtually anyone older
than Johann held some position, belonged to the Nazi party, or allowed such atrocities to occur against the Jews.
Placing all the
blame on educators would be more
than mistaken; it would obscure much of what we need to do differently.
And rather
than acknowledge the sacrifices these teachers have made for their students, Mr. Naeyaert continued to
place even more
blame on the victims, incorrectly identifying the «causes» for the sickouts to suit his political agenda.
Rather
than blaming this on the size of the key, I think this is more an issue with the key being
placed so low on the device.
While this article accurately details a sad event, it fails to focus on proper preparatory steps and wrongly
places blame on the air carrier rather
than on a lack of preparation and awareness by the dog's planners.
For those of you who have been following this for a while, you may remember that Cliff Bleszinski's most recent interview
placed the
blame on the game's current state on media outlets and insisted that his team recognizes that the game's life cycle is a marathon, rather
than a sprint.
These decisions seemed to poise MOCA as financially and intellectually unstable, but the
blame has been
placed on Jeffrey Deitch more
than anyone else.
I remember one article on ballistic missle throw weights and how greater
blame for build up should be
placed on the USA rather
than the USSR.
Then when a whopper of a blizzard smacked the Northeast with more
than 2 feet of snow in some
places earlier this month, some of the same people again
blamed global warming.....
Maybe the
blame is more fairly
placed at politicians feet
than economists.
So I'm inclined to
place the
blame on the media rather
than on scientists.
Rather
than confirming that smart meters don't work, or are being manipulated for financial gain the report
placed the
blame on a heat wave and an increase in rates.
Women who experience such stranger rapes may be
blamed because they should have known better
than to
place themselves in dangerous situations.
Some news outlets
place the
blame on a bill introduced more
than a decade ago.
Everybody focuses on solving the problems rather
than on
placing blame for them.