When you first read about the «negative path» and Alan Watts's «backwards law» in chapter 1, did you find yourself agreeing or disagreeing with Oliver Burkeman that these might be more sensible strategies for happiness
than positive thinking?
If anything, coping better is more about positive doing
than positive thinking.
More people fill their heads with negative thoughts and criticisms
than positive thoughts.
Not exact matches
The study's authors say that getting people to
think favourably of your accomplishments might be better achieved «by modest self - representation, or even self - denigration,
than by outright bragging about one's
positive qualities.»
It's a
positive thing if you understand the obligations involved in responding to an invitation to be a speaker: the obligation to share your
thoughts if you know more
than the other people in the room, and the obligation to not share your
thoughts if you don't know more
than the other people in the room.
With the rise of the Law of Attraction /
positive thinking movement and the pressure to set high, difficult to reach goals, leaders can easily set targets that are based on little more
than blind hope.
Despite the fact people chose freely and presumably wanted to maximize their happiness, those who opted to
think of a negative memory for more chocolate were significantly less happy
than those who chose a
positive memory for less chocolate.
«I
think we've always
thought that it's important to have a
positive relationships with local government, rather
than taking a confrontational kind of stance,» Blecharczyk said in an interview with CNBC's Julia Boorstin that aired Tuesday on «Squawk on the Street» after Airbnb was named the No. 1 company on the 2017 CNBC Disruptor 50 list.
The GGSC suggests a practice adopted from Buddhist meditation and now backed up by science: «treating
thoughts, whether negative or
positive, more like smells, sights, tastes and sounds: things that arrive in your awareness, rather
than things that constitute the essence of who you are.
«Sometimes even the initial discussion is enough to shake people up and say, «this is a lot bigger
than I
thought if it is presenting itself in the workplace,»» Dr Boyd says, but he also warns business owners that a
positive response is far from universal: «Denial is something that is endemic in drug use, so it's the norm not the exception.»
There are plenty of people out there who have pretty
positive self - assessments: Ninety percent of drivers
think they have above average skills behind the wheel, an even higher percentage of college professors
think they're better
than average teachers, and, as we all know, every single child in Lake Wobegon is above average.
But after reviewing the charts, Sebastian
thought the action in the VIX could be trending more
positive than negative.
The president and CEO of Houston - based Apache Corp. (NYSE: APA) said he
thinks the company's Alpine High project will be cash -
positive in the near future, despite a slower acceleration of the company's efforts there
than expected.
Nevertheless, there are a number of things you can start doing today, that will have a
positive impact on your profile in less time
than you might
think.
As we consider how we measure and strive toward decentralization, perhaps we should learn to
think of cryptocurrencies» success as something more
than green arrows and
positive slopes on a screen.
«One of the reasons why economic growth has been weaker in this expansion
than others is a lack of government spending now I
think that in the short - term negative in the long run I
think a move in resources from the government sector to the private sector is
positive but it takes a while for that to manifest itself in stronger overall GDP growth».
We believe conditions are more
positive than the reaction of the past few days would suggest, which is why we
think this is a short - term respite within the ongoing bull market.
They have had a
positive correlation in 25 % of all periods, so I
think it's more reasonable to say that stocks and bonds are not correlated, rather
than stocks and bonds are negatively correlated.
«I
think with the focus being on earnings and not macro, it feels like we shifted to micro rather
than macro and that micro is
positive.
I
think a «ficticious avatar» would sound too much like either a troll or a manipulative fiction and would have a negative rather
than a
positive effect.
Thus, I
think Mr. Romney can not be a good President as his job will be to create
positive image of the country and to move it forward rather
than be negative and just blame everything on Obama.
its not really atheism or religion that I have a problem with, its the hate, control, and fear that goes along with it that I have a problem with, you say that those who are spiritual are into new agey, crystal ball, stuff, see that's what I'm talking about, you assume to know what something is about when you don't understand something you naturally fear it, your self righteous clouds you, don't you get that by being narrow minded in your view towards things, you really act no better
than religious fundamentalists, being spiritual is a lot more
than just the new agey,
think positive all the time that you
think it is, its about being aware of who you are?
I
think that without a doubt that praying such prayers for oneself can be nothing less
than a absolute
positive for the Kingdom of Heaven and the Christ like servitude that Christians should have for their fellow man.
Researchers in the latter field have known for some time that people don't
think like adding machines, tallying up potential
positive and negative outcomes («gains» and «losses»), but feel worse about a given unit of loss
than about a corresponding unit of gain.
They call them peddlers of religion, and they do not mean that in a
positive way, but rather are referring to people they believe are trying to push their own agenda of a psuedo - religious toxic mix of some sort of religious something, politics, power, control, personal profit (
think $ $ $) and efforts to feel good about ones self while at the same time looking down on neighbors (condescension) rather
than loving neighbors.
Protestants and Catholics tend to look at authority from rather different perspectives, and on the whole I
think it fair to say that the version of the common tradition to which Catholics are heir tends to give them a more
positive attitude toward the function of authority in the church
than that found among Protestants.
He always
thought it better to light a candle
than curse the darkness, and his theology is a
positive and often exhilarating light in the confusion of the times.
I
thought the characters were flat and unattractive, the story ho - hum, and the premise churlish and clumsy (i.e. the whole point is to tear down the belief system of others rather
than put something
positive forward as an alternative).
also Mr EDNA u will know if u were conversant with the human brain that emotional maturity fostered by
positive atti.tudes like love, joyfulness, tolerance, etc which are promoted by religion enables humans to use more brain power and
think more clearly
than negative ones like pride, prejudice, etc..
He emphasized the active, integrating self (rather
than the frail, victimized ego); held to a «soft» (rather
than a «hard») determinism; had a strong interest in future, goal - directed strivings (rather
than origins); emphasized the organism as a whole centered in the self (rather
than a conflict view of personality); regarded the striving for worth and power (rather
than sexual striving) as the central dynamic in mental health and illness; emphasized the possibilities for continuing change in the later years (rather
than regarding the early years as utterly decisive)(2) It is clear from these motifs in Adler's
thought that his vision of human beings was
positive and growth - centered.
Even though I don't care for Osteen his message seem to be nothing more
than a cafeteria selection of
positive thinking, Pentecostalism, and the good ole American Health and Wealth Gospel.
So now that you just saw your entire week flash before your eyes, I
think we can agree the 5 minute effort investment it takes to throw this batter together in the blender more
than pays for itself in snack problem - solving and overall
positive vibes.
UK consumers traditionally associate a wider range of
positive attributes with brands
than own labels, particularly being trustworthy (52 %), traditional (51 %) and authentic (44 %), while just 2 % of adults
think that they are bland.
Excited because the reviews here are encouragingly
positive, but nervous because I've spent more
than $ 70 on the ingredients (which really is pretty excessive if you
think about it) and if it comes out badly, I'm going to be brokenhearted.
If you consider spurs as big club
than we have fallen for real.barcelona are also dominating but what counts is a win.in football you only celebrate wins, so stop trying to look for a
positive in a defeat accept and how big teams
think (winning mentality) @goonsquad8
But the latest injury update from Arsene Wenger, reported by Arsenal.com, is actually quite
positive and reveals that quite a few of the players are due to be available for selection a lot sooner
than previously
thought.
Sell him to Munich in the summer and buy the striker we need, on a
positive note, well done Danny welbeck, have to admit I don't rate him but he was great last night really impressed me, maybe he can develop to b much better
than I
thought, hope so, also Montreal deserves real credit for his huge improvement from last season.
I
think that's a
positive as Santi is better personally on the left
than Mesut.
As cliched as it is, sometimes you have to hit rock bottom to go forward and I believe that at the end of this transfer window, we might be a lot more
positive than people
thought we would be.
Defensive lapses and a slow return process were expected, but the lack of
positive, on - ball decision making, poor shooting numbers are bigger problems
than I first
thought.
The Frenchman's injury update reported by Arsenal.com this week was pretty
positive though and I
think that Welbeck could be ready even sooner
than he suggested.
Besides several teams who have questions surrounding one or possibly two players, there is no squad that has so many issues heading into the final week of the transfer window... even Monaco, who have lost numerous players from their starting 11 have less controversy swirling in and around their club and they have champion's league play to contend with this season... just
think of how ridiculous this situation is especially considering that we have had the same manager for over 20 years... no team should be better organized
than ours... if nothing else, that should be the one advantage this team holds over all others, yet the exact opposite has occurred... this fact is even more disturbing considering the main argument against removing Wenger from his managerial position was that there was no suitable replacement and that people feared some sort of perceived drop - off if a new manager was brought into the mix... based on what we've witnessed since the time of his contract renewal a monkey with a magic eight ball could have done an adequate job... I hate to make jokes, in light of our current dilemma, but this team is so screwed up if I don't laugh about it, the only plausible response is to either cry or do something incredibly destructive... just look around this squad and try to see what our delusional manager sees that allow him to make such
positive statements about our current team
4 years ago I got behind the man and supported him, looked for the
positives like his 2nd season being better
than his 1st and previously he has always done better in the team on the 2nd year... I wanted him to be the CF we needed and a lot of fans supported him and cheered for him, gave him his song and he returned the favor by being a lazy git who only steps up around the transfer periods to make his manager
think again about needing a Cf.
It is sometimes hard to find anything
positive to
think about after your football club suffers a disappointing result or puts in a below par performance, but we Arsenal fans have had more
than enough practice so I reckon I am getting quite good at it.
He's better now
than he was in the last two or three years, I
think he is
positive overall and is in a very good shape at the moment.»
I feel we did well against city too; I get we didn't do well against dortmund and I don't
think anybody is more disappointed
than me but let's move on, focus on villa on saturday, let's stop d negative vibes; let us together create a
positive energy around our club
I
think the fact that he's managed to make
positive and game effecting plays through this terrible game planning is a testament to how good he can be once he gets weapons and a coach who's more invested in harnessing his greatness
than saving his own legacy.
Lastly, he has a sort of perfectionism on the ball — which is actually less
positive than you'd
think.
So I am choosing to take this defeat as a
positive rather
than a negative and
think other Blues fans should too.
on whether it feels more
positive inside the club
than it has done in the past... Yeah, I
think the spirit is really good in the team.