Sometimes, nothing made you feel older and more worn out
than the happiness of others.
Not exact matches
These links between
happiness and time use are worrying news, as the current generation
of teens (whom I call «iGen» in my book
of the same name) spends more time with screens
than any previous generation.
But as bestselling author and Oprah - anointed
happiness expert Shawn Achor pointed out on in an excerpt from his new book on the TED Ideas blog recently, that sort
of praise — well intentioned as it might be — actually does more harm
than good.
If so, you may be the type
of person
happiness expert Gretchen Rubin calls an Eeyore — someone who'd rather eat their iphone
than give themselves a contentment score in the 90s.
She has more
than 25 years
of experience in corporate and startup ventures, and speaks widely on combining strategic and creative thinking for optimum success and
happiness.
According to a study by Michael Norton
of Harvard Business School and two colleagues from the University
of British Columbia, the amount
of money people earn has less influence on their
happiness than how they spend it, and those who spend at least some
of their money on others are happier
than those who do not.
The American Meteorological Society published research in 2011 that found current temperature has a bigger effect on our
happiness than variables like wind speed and humidity, or even the average temperature over the course
of a day.
As much as I respect a lot
of the
happiness work out there, most
of it is either anchored in psychology practice or spirituality, or matters that are a little softer
than what today's typical person who prioritizes logic needs to understand.
Despite the fact people chose freely and presumably wanted to maximize their
happiness, those who opted to think
of a negative memory for more chocolate were significantly less happy
than those who chose a positive memory for less chocolate.
Gretchen Rubin, the bestselling author
of The
Happiness Project, Better
Than Before and The Four Tendencies, offers advice about how to be happy in her popular podcast which she co-hosts with her younger sister, Elizabeth Craft.
Tech - savvy speaker Killingsworth shares an important aspect
of happiness many audience members might miss: Leaving the present often leaves us feeling emptier
than we should.
Meanwhile, the body
of literature analyzing and measuring
happiness is growing and increasingly popular: from 1991 to 1995, Buchholtz writes, there were just four economics papers published on the topic; between 2001 and 2005, more
than 100 appeared.
One study conducted at UC Riverside found that Anglo - Americans benefitted more from
happiness - increasing activities; however, researchers did see a small trend that Asians gained more from activities directed toward benefitting others»
happiness, like writing a letter
of gratitude,
than activities strictly intended to benefit the self.
It's our social relationships that are the number one predictor
of happiness — more
than demographics, age or income.
But for most
of us, we work harder and longer hours
than ever before, believing that by doing so, we'll find the
happiness and success we want in our lives.
The takeaway: «Small, concrete goals designed to improve the well being
of others are more likely to lead to
happiness for the giver
than are acts with large, abstract goals — despite people's intuitions to the contrary,» and keeping that fact in mind can provide a considerable boost to your well being.
One
of those who find in the discipline more ideology
than science, Orrell argues against 10 principles
of economic orthodoxy, including the rationality and predictability
of the market and its potential to provide
happiness.
And that might increase feelings
of guilt for being paid so much more
than you've earned or deserve, thus diminishing
happiness.
And with a growing body
of research that suggests employee
happiness yields a promising return on investment, many employers are interested in perking up their workers with more
than just K - Cup coffee.
A Strayer survey recently found that 90 percent
of Americans define success as more about
happiness than power, possessions, or prestige.
A study by Strayer University found that 90 %
of Americans believe
happiness is a bigger indicator
of success
than power, possessions, or prestige.
Research shows that
happiness has positive effects on our brains, and it's certainly a pleasant turn
of luck to be born with a sunny disposition, but according to science if you weren't so fortunate and naturally tend towards pessimism, trying to remake yourself into more
of an optimist is probably doing more harm
than good.
Research does show that money is associated with greater
happiness up to an income
of about $ 75,000, but even after controlling for income, it turns out that people who want time more
than they want money are happier.
[09:10] The science
of achievement [09:25] Effective execution [09:45] The element
of grace [10:00] The art
of fulfillment [10:45] The key to
happiness is progress [10:55] When you grow you have something to give [11:30] What's more rare
than a billionaire [11:45] Taking 100 % responsibility for yourself [12:10] Add more value [12:55] Dreams + Embracing reality + Determination [13:15] The quality
of life is the quality
of your decisions [13:55] The meeting
of a lifetime or a critical business obligation [16:15] Decision - making must be done on paper [16:25] What makes decision - making hard?
My experience so far is that each household has its own level
of spending for maximum
happiness, and that it's rather smaller on average
than this.
I recent read «The Subtle Art
of Not Giving a F*ck» by Mark Manson, and I like that he frames
happiness as a process — something that is with us as we solve problems — rather
than a goal to be attained.
Some did try to reconnect with estranged family or patch troubled relationships when they learned they were dying - more for themselves
than for the
happiness of their families.
Far from condoning every destruction
of nature that is executed in the name
of human purposes, the maximal
happiness principle prescribes such sacrifice only when the human possibilities are thereby greater
than they would otherwise be.
Reasoning with people
of faith is more tricky
than the
happiness one finds by abandoning their own faith in religious delusion.
Thus, because the ultimate objective, the totality to which my nature is attuned has been made manifest to me, the powers
of my being begin spontaneously to vibrate in accord with a single note
of incredible richness wherein I can distinguish the most discordant tendencies effortlessly resolved: the excitement
of action and the delight
of passivity: the joy
of possessing and the thrill
of reaching out beyond what one possesses; the pride in growing and the
happiness of being lost in what is greater
than oneself.
Thus the «incarnational» counter to contemporary Gnosticism and its ideology
of «you are what you say you are» (irrespective, for example,
of biology) will be less an argument
than a demonstration: living in concord with the moral truths built into the world and into us, which lead to beatitude or
happiness.
They had one supreme theory: that the perfect beauty and
happiness of cities and
of human life was to be brought about by more factories; they had a mania for factories; there was nothing they would not do to cajole a factory away from another city; and they were never more piteously embittered
than when another city cajoled one away from them.
I guess that C.S. Lewis — here at least — spoke
of pleasure rather
than of Christian
happiness which,
of course, can not be found in any outwardly oriented religion if we are not indwelt by the Holy Spirit who gives us love, joy, peace, and much more (Gal 5:22 - 23).
It is meaningful to say that one thing is higher or better
than, or superior to (or has more
of some variable property not a mere deficiency
than), another; but this meaning is not simply univocal, since x may be better
than y in one respect, say in ethical goodness, and not better in another, say in
happiness.
Most
of us, religious or otherwise, believe, as Asch puts it, «there are things other
than «
happiness» that matter: peace, justice, equality, wisdom.
Individuals feel part
of a cause greater
than the self - interested pursuit
of personal
happiness.
Teams from the London School
of Economics and Erasmus University Medical Center in the Netherlands found that involvement in organized religion was more effective at producing «sustained
happiness»
than sports, political groups, charity work or continuing educational efforts.
Is there ANYTHING that brings Christians more
happiness than imagining the torture
of non-believers while they get to say «I told you so!»?
Just as we saw that in healthy - mindedness there are shallower and profounder levels,
happiness like that
of the mere animal, and more regenerate
of happiness, so also are there different levels
of the morbid mind, and the one is much more formidable
than the other.
If the married persons in his congregation were asked to rate the relative
happiness of their nuptial relationship, fewer
than half would rate them as «very happy» (Ibid.
This refuge once known will produce reaction on the
happiness even
of those who remain there, by warning their task - masters that when the evils
of Egyptian oppression became heavier
than those
of the abandonment
of country, another Canaan is open where their subjects will be received as brothers and secured against like oppression by a participation in the right
of self - government.
The securest way to the rapturous sorts
of happiness of which the twice - born make report has as an historic matter
of fact been through a more radical pessimism
than anything that we have yet considered.
Instead
of lamenting the fact that Americans seemed to be more intent on individual
happiness than upon public good, some began to argue that just such a principle was the basis
of the new American system The new Constitution, it was felt, harnessed individual acquisitiveness to public order.
We argue that Nietzsche is embracing an ancient rather
than a modern view
of ethics, what has been called an «ethics
of virtue» rather
than an ethics
of rules and principles, rather
than an ethic that looks mainly to the spread
of well - being and
happiness («utilitarianism»).
We will not make this kind
of move until we really decide that
happiness is more important
than the quantity or quality
of the goods consumed, and that the latter is not, beyond a certain point, a significant contributor to
happiness.
No one has contributed more to this discussion
than your neighbor in Alberta, Mark Anielski, in his recent book on the economics
of happiness.
atheism is a cop - out for lazy persons who are in need
of experiencing
happiness and truth rather
than temporal pleasures.
(Ex-Catholic, now atheist) Julia Sweeney's monologue «Letting Go
Of God» will be the final nail in the coffin of religious belief / faith and is and will continue to be more effective than any money - generating book or blog on the historical Jesus, your «Ultimate Happiness Prescription», atheism or secularis
Of God» will be the final nail in the coffin
of religious belief / faith and is and will continue to be more effective than any money - generating book or blog on the historical Jesus, your «Ultimate Happiness Prescription», atheism or secularis
of religious belief / faith and is and will continue to be more effective
than any money - generating book or blog on the historical Jesus, your «Ultimate
Happiness Prescription», atheism or secularism.
You try to make the point that imagining heaven and angels and joy and
happiness is a better choice
than accepting the world we have and working hard to improve it without divine aid instead
of taking the lazy mans way out which is to wait for God to clean it all up.
(Ex-Catholic, now atheist) Julia Sweeney's monologue «Letting Go
Of God» will be one of the final nails in the coffin of religious belief / faith and is and will continue to be more effective than any money - generating book or blog on the historical Jesus or your «Ultimate Happiness Prescription»
Of God» will be one
of the final nails in the coffin of religious belief / faith and is and will continue to be more effective than any money - generating book or blog on the historical Jesus or your «Ultimate Happiness Prescription»
of the final nails in the coffin
of religious belief / faith and is and will continue to be more effective than any money - generating book or blog on the historical Jesus or your «Ultimate Happiness Prescription»
of religious belief / faith and is and will continue to be more effective
than any money - generating book or blog on the historical Jesus or your «Ultimate
Happiness Prescription».