In fact, I've met more than one AP mom who
thought attachment parenting was ruining her life.
I think attachment parenting comes from insecurity on the part of the parent, rather than the confidence that it takes to say, «I know what's best.»
Let me preface my sad, sorry tale of attachment parenting gone horribly awry by saying this: I do not
think attachment parenting in and of itself is a bad thing.
I think Attachment Parenting is totally possible with closer - in - age kids and that there are tons of positives that go along with closer spacings.
Not exact matches
Anyway, I
thought this whole
Attachment Parenting thing was a dying fashion.
However, I
think it is a real shame that so many «
attachment parents» have given the whole label such a bad rap.
Though to be honest, I don't
think I knew what
attachment parenting was until my second son was born.
Prior to this, she's been such a happy & content baby (
attachment parenting, that is) playing on her own, allowing me to go to the loo, getting the dinner done, all together, i
thought it was all systems go for us.
But, we would be kidding ourselves to
think we all are perfect
attachment style
parents.
When you
think of
attachment parenting do you imagine a woman wearing a baby in a sling with hairy armpits breastfeeding her six year old while eating a rice cake covered in tahini?
If I
thought I had to do
attachment parenting or bed sharing in order to breastfeed, I would have serious
thoughts about switching to formula.
If you're
thinking of trying
attachment parenting co sleeping may be an element of this style of raising your child that you might not have
thought of before.
Either you can say what you
think the world needs to hear about
Attachment Parenting, or someone else can say what they want to say,» he said.
On one hand, there is the
thought that
Attachment Parenting creates over-dependence and a lack of self - reliance, and that a broken attachment puts a child at mental or phys
Attachment Parenting creates over-dependence and a lack of self - reliance, and that a broken
attachment puts a child at mental or phys
attachment puts a child at mental or physical risk.
HI, I don't really agree with your explanation of the stroller situation... I don't
think it has to do with the fact of being self - righteous... but the lady (or other
attachment parenting people) making a confusion between goals and tools.
He makes friends easily, and has what I
think is the right amount of independence from his
parents, as well as the right degree of
attachment.
October is
Attachment Parenting Month, and I
think it's a good time to write about how it works for us, and how it is helping us get through the major transition we are going through right now with me starting a new job and Sadie starting at daycare.
Some
parents might not see it that way, but I
think this is a big part of what
Attachment Parenting advocates try to teach.
Probably largely his nature, but I like to
think it's also a sign of secure
attachment to his
parents and caregivers.
There have been several posts here at API Speaks related to the holidays and so today, I
thought I'd compile them all in one place —
Attachment Parenting and the Holidays.
I just
think it's easier for women to fall into the Martyrdom trap — especially because of the Boob Factor and even more so when practicing
Attachment Parenting.
«Is there anything you
think the world should know about
Attachment Parenting?»
I
think part of
attachment parenting and meeting the intense needs of infants and young children is helping build self - sufficiency and mutual respect.
This
think - tank event and reception on
attachment parenting by
parenting experts Dr. William and Martha Sears, sleep expert Dr. James McKenna, LLL founder Mary Ann Cahill,
parent education leader Dr. Stephen Bavolek, separation / custody and AP expert Dr. Isabelle Fox, hosted by noted
parenting author and television anchor / entrepreneur Lu Hanessian, and honored guests, API founders and authors Barbara Nicholson and Lysa Parker.
Attachment Parenting Works for Teens, Too Attachment Parenting is often thought of as an approach to parenting young
Parenting Works for Teens, Too
Attachment Parenting is often thought of as an approach to parenting young
Parenting is often
thought of as an approach to
parenting young
parenting young children.
My children are older now — one has finished college, the other graduates in May — but I still give a lot of
thought to
Attachment Parenting.
She offered tips, recommended books and articles, sent me links and educated me in a gentle, non-obtrusive way about natural childbirth, breastfeeding and
attachment parenting (although I don't
think she ever used that specific term, now that I
think about it).
The fact that there seem to be earmarks of
Attachment Parenting makes so many of us
think that if we do not practice all the «correct» AP methods, then we can not call ourselves an AP
parent.
This post was originally published by
Attachment Parenting International in 2015, and it is as
thought - provoking today as ever:
Therefore, FWIW, the fact that they did not have as successful a result as the author of this article experienced, is NOT due to
attachment parenting, and I do NOT
think AP is to blame but to the contrary, is because AP was NOT practiced in its entirety along with other unforeseen factors.
As an
Attachment Theorist, I think it's important to point out that while these practices may facilitate more responsive parenting — which does indeed contribute to a secure attachment — they are not the actual cause of «secure attachme
Attachment Theorist, I
think it's important to point out that while these practices may facilitate more responsive
parenting — which does indeed contribute to a secure
attachment — they are not the actual cause of «secure attachme
attachment — they are not the actual cause of «secure
attachmentattachment.»
Honestly, I
think some form of
attachment parenting has been around as long as babies.
A secure
attachment does not mean «over
parenting» but rather involves being a resting place where your child can safely express
thoughts and emotions and receive empathy and support, and where he or she can feel a sense of belonging, acceptance, and unconditional love.
Attachment Parenting is a set of practices — for instance, wearing your baby, breastfeeding and co-sleeping — that are thought to promote a secure a
Attachment Parenting is a set of practices — for instance, wearing your baby, breastfeeding and co-sleeping — that are
thought to promote a secure
attachmentattachment.
When I read the post and then Amanda's article, A French Feminist Fights the New Feminine Mystique, as a woman who values both female liberties and the philosophies on which
attachment parenting is based, I felt compelled to take my
thoughts further than the comment section below either would allow.
Do I
think spanking goes against
attachment parenting?
AP makes natural
parenting and green living rather easy, as Attachment Parenting already puts us into a unique mindset where we're thinking independently of mainstream society — making decisions based on what we feel is best for ourselves and our families without the influence of biased corporate marketing c
parenting and green living rather easy, as
Attachment Parenting already puts us into a unique mindset where we're thinking independently of mainstream society — making decisions based on what we feel is best for ourselves and our families without the influence of biased corporate marketing c
Parenting already puts us into a unique mindset where we're
thinking independently of mainstream society — making decisions based on what we feel is best for ourselves and our families without the influence of biased corporate marketing campaigns.
I
think that's the true intention of
attachment parenting, to understand your child's needs and meet them in a compassionate manner.
While I wish you would not have been so extremist and judgmental (I truly
think it was a selfish move on your part to get attention and make money), I do appreciate the opportunity for
Attachment Parenting to be self - reflective and take a hard look at the reality of the recommendations put forth that are very difficult, if not impossible, for every woman to adopt.
Before baby comes is the time to really look into
Attachment Parenting International «s First Principle of
Parenting — when you can
think clearly and begin to look at some of your childhood wounds, identify areas that may be difficult as you raise your own children, share your insights with your partner and become a team as you enter the uncharted waters of parenthood.
What do you
think people most misunderstand about
attachment parenting?
I have been reading a lot about
attachment parenting pros and cons.I
think that the pros are obvious.the cons however are if the
parents decide they can not continue with for example co sleepng it is very hard on the child to then have to learn to sleep alone before they are confident enough to do so.for working
parents the seperation to a carer is very hard and also helping
parents to read the signs properly that their child wants to explore freely when they are used to protecting their little one.these are all things
parents need to be aware of when adapting this form of
parenting.I like it very much but I am a professional childcarer with additional childcare knowledge too and though
parents always know their own child best risk for example is always an immotive subject to get across to
parents that their little one needs to experience risk within of course a safe environment.
Night weaning then researching weaning for our API meeting last month got me
thinking about breastfeeding in the
Attachment Parenting community.
When
thinking about this year's
Attachment Parenting (AP) Month theme — «Cherishing
Parents, Flourishing Children» — I wanted to be sure I really understood the meaning of «cherish» and «flourish.»
I've been shocked at the lack of ego that I've run into and I'd like to
think that it's indicative of the
attachment parenting philosophy at work in adults.
I've been exploring the topic of
attachment parenting and fathering as part of launching my new Go Fatherhood site and bumped into a
thought - provoking article on a mom blog that claims
attachment parenting requires the mom to be a supporter of feminism.
I
thought to myself that
attachment parenting really meant attached - to - the - mama
parenting.
Parents need to reframe their
thoughts about getting up at night with a new toddler as a wonderful opportunity to build
attachment, rather than a dreaded chore.
And according to WebMD,
attachment parenting has eight basic principles: breastfeed, and listen and respond to baby's cues; eliminate any negative
thoughts surrounding pregnancy, birth, and
parenting; respond with sensitivity even when your kid tantrums; practice co-sleeping; provide constant care; practice positive discipline; follow skin - to - skin; and strive for balance in work and life.
We were
attachment parents, and
thought no child would just cry the way Blaise did.