I always
thought of perfectionists as those people with lovely handwriting and Martha Stewart level obsessiveness when it comes to every aspect of their life.
Not exact matches
While it's true
perfectionists can be rewarded for their flawless performances and may even
think their desire to never make a mistake is what makes them more efficient at their job, the obsession for perfect may indeed stand in the way
of success.
Perfectionists care deeply about what other people
think of them, and this can make feedback hard to take.
George's
perfectionist theory
of civil liberties merits scholarly attention, especially from liberals who too easily dismiss natural law
thinking as an outdated approach to politics and ethics.
I've never really
thought of myself as a
perfectionist.
West, who is such a
perfectionist that he ran out
of patience coaching the less - than - perfect Lakers and gave up the job after three seasons,
thinks the game has changed so much that now it belongs as much to the outstanding ball handler as to the seven - footer.
Those with obsessive - compulsive disorder tend to overestimate threats, have an inflated sense
of responsibility, be
perfectionists and fear intrusive
thoughts because they feel out
of control.
I experienced widespread anxiety that my friends often attributed to being a
perfectionist, which,
of course, I let them
think.
As a clinical psychologist and author
of three books, including When Good Enough is Never Enough: Escaping the Perfection Trap, Dr Hendlin defines a
perfectionist as «someone who
thinks anything short
of perfection in performance is unacceptable, whereas the person who strives for excellence is able to derive personal satisfaction and pride from a good - enough performance.»
Valerie Young, EdD, author
of The Secret
Thoughts of Successful Women, offers a few reasons why we're such relentless
perfectionists with ourselves.
I'll say more NO to: doing things which I don't want to but usually say yes to so I wouldn't disappoint others, feeling down or beat myself up over every little thing which didn't go right or as planned, being a
perfectionist every single moment
of every single day, going places or meeting people just because
of FOMO, eating foods that physically don't make me feel good, no matter how big the cravings might be, buying new stuff unless I really, really need them or can't stop
thinking about them, emotional vampires who suck the life out
of me and never bring anything good or positive along with them...
I feel the same way at times, especially lately with all the new life changes happening & honestly I
think a lot
of bloggers are
perfectionists feeling the same way at times!
I
think I'm a bit
of a
perfectionist and sometimes let my heart get ahead
of what my head is saying I could / should do.
If you consider yourself a
perfectionist, you should probably not be
thinking of self - publishing.
But this type
of perfectionist thinking is itself a barrier to legal - services innovation.
Micromanagers like to
think of themselves as
perfectionists, but they probably aren't.
Some tasks I
think only he can do well because he is more
of a
perfectionist than I am, so I pull him into my schemes.
I
think my biggest problem over the year is that I can be something
of a
perfectionist.