Not exact matches
To the best of our ability, their father and I raised our children to see both parents working in the home and without as normal, and when they grew
up, our daughters, our only children, had no second thoughts about
giving time to their careers, nor to the advantages of
breastfeeding and the importance of providing healthy, whole foods to their families.
However, some parents take a much different approach on other attachment parenting aspects, such as letting a child decide when it's
time to
give up breastfeeding and get his or her own bed.
So I always tell new moms that it will get better and that you can always stop later but you can't really start
up again if you stop... so, if you want to
breastfeed,
give you and your baby some
time.
I make it a point to talk about why I
gave up on
breastfeeding so early - because I know (now) that I was wrong about a lot of things - and I hope that it will somehow help other moms (and myself next
time around).
By that
time, there was enough data available to declare safe not only
breastfeeding without
giving up the injections, but even not to stop taking them during pregnancy itself.
Is it better for a mother to put her pump parts in the fridge between uses, or to wash her pump parts every
time as described — and then
give up and stop
breastfeeding altogether because she can't stand over a sink and spend 15 minutes washing pump parts in the middle of the night when she is exhausted and has already been
up for an hour pumping and feeding the baby?
I agree that you should leave the issue of
breastfeeding out of the pediatricians office most of the
time (mine suggested I
give up altogether because it was too hard on me.)
by: Anonymous My one month old son is
breastfed & formula fed but he is always groaning as if he is in pain, he has» nt pass stool for a day so i
gave him gripe water & it is still happening i then
gave him laxitive drops he passes a little stool but he is still crying at
times & muscle - ing
up as if he is straining to do something & thats makes me very uncomfortable, what should i do?
Name: Crystal Lives in: Jersey City, New Jersey
Breastfeeding experience: Stressful, disappointing, and upsetting Main challenges: Lactation failure; took
time to diagnose the problem; felt shamed by lactation consultants
Breastfed for: Tried for 5 weeks before finally
giving up
Feel sorry for her child, obviously if its a girl she will
give her a very hard
time when she grows
up and tries to
breastfeed.
Waiting at least four weeks
gives you
time to build
up a healthy breast milk supply and ensure that your baby is
breastfeeding well.
I myself, did almost
give up on
breastfeeding that first year of my infant's life more
times than I can count.
How very very sad to read that you trusted the information you were
given and it was wrong AND BULLYING, to deny babies the opportunity to feed on formula is an absolute disgrace, My daughter had a nightmare
time with her first born, trying to
breastfeed, eventually in the middle of the night, when we were sure he was starving, we made a bottle
up and fed him, he was so very grateful,
Most women trying to
breastfeed for the first
time feel isolated in their efforts and are unaware of the fact that many other mothers are experiencing the same struggles as them, and I greatly believe this is the first reason why most new mothers prematurely
give up on the idea of
breastfeeding.
So, while some children can
give up breastfeeding without a fuss, others will have a much harder
time especially when it happens too quickly.
I just hoped to recover soon and start
breastfeeding again.But he has got used to bottle & is not ready to feed from the breast.Finally I
gave up n thought of atleast
giving him expressed breast milk thru an electronic pump.But my milk supply has become very low since
breastfeeding wasnt continuous since birth.I have also got my periods at 1 and half mmonths.Already on lactare capsules but no use.Heard of many side effects of domperidone & metoclopramide.Pls help.Im so worried.im pumping every 3 hrs & the output is roughly 15 ml including both breasts each
time.Is is possible to increase breastmilk production from 2 months
time after birth?
I am a second
time mom and with my first baby I
gave up breastfeeding because of the pain.
Sure it was a roller - coaster ride of
ups and downs, of crying, of sore nipples, and thinking of
giving up as I did not know what I was doing wrong, of pressure from family and friends who were not sure I could produce enough milk, of sleepless nights, and extensive pain because of my cesarean wounds, of managing my
time to work, and
breastfeeding before leaving for work, during my noon breaks, and after the working day was over.
It's been two months since we brought the baby home and my 3 year old is showing no signs of
giving up breastfeeding any
time soon.
If they are so supportive of bfing then why send 2 separate packages of formula to a mom at the exact
time that most moms in this part of Canada (the Maritime provinces)
give up on
breastfeeding — 3 months.
The best part... he sticks
up for me when other, less educated in
breastfeeding people in the office start
giving me a hard
time (not that there are many of them).
Repeat them every day as she is fighting for
breastfeeding your child and can
give up at any
time.
This is a practical alternative for working moms who don't have
time to
breastfeed for every meal but don't want to
give it
up altogether.
She
gave up breastfeeding sometime in her 17th month, but I do not have a memory of the «last»
time nor did I want to dwell on it.
RACHEL KELTY: It definitely saved our
breastfeeding journey and our relationship and it helped — it
gave my nipples
time to heal so that we could figure out what the problem was which did end
up being a tongue - tied.
My mother, my own mother who
breastfed me for I think four months was like every
time I wipe it out and when they come over and I just need to breast feed my babies, she looks at me and
gives me that look and she is like, okay, they can ask for it so maybe it is
time to wrap things
up.
«Yes, I was ready to
give up on
breastfeeding multiple
times.
When the body can't make enough milk to keep
up with the demand of
breastfeeding, it may be
time to
give up nursing.
But for those women who are
breastfeeding, incidents like these can force them to choose between
giving up breastfeeding and taking
time off from work.
Throughout the antenatal period, most women are
given information which dictates that «breast is best» but — in my experience - there is little
time or effort
given to exploring the psychological concerns that
breastfeeding may bring
up for survivors of sexual assault / abuse.
I have seen babies who are upset every
time they go near a breast because they have been handled roughly by hospital staff (mothers» breasts have been grabbed and their baby's head shoved onto a breast); I have seen women who have been told they don't have enough milk or «your milk isn't strong enough» (this is never true and usually comes from an older relative who may have been told this a generation ago); women who have been advised to
give their babies a top -
up bottle only to have the baby find the fast milk flow easier than working at the breast so consequently, weaning begins before
breastfeeding even becomes established.
I tried expressing a few
times and it was so hard I
gave up on that only
breastfed my boy.
«My husband gets
up with the baby first, changing her and comforting her, which
gives me
time to prepare for
breastfeeding (waking
up a little, using the restroom, and getting a glass of water).
You know, we are asking them to combine that role of being a
breastfeeding mother, alongside being a lover and a sexual partner and you know, when two or three months have gone by and you are struggling to combine those two roles and your partner is struggling with that, it's inevitable that some people are going to start thinking about
giving up breastfeeding and certainly for asking those mothers to get to six months and a year, that's a long
time to struggle with those two roles and struggle trying to make those two roles fit together.
There are different options you can try to make this easier and / or encourage them to
breastfeed less or night wean: get a bigger bed (we upgraded to a king size), put a couple of mattresses together and make one BIG bed on the floor, tell them «no boobie until the sun comes
up», or have your partner see if they can put them to bed at night to
give you a bit of a break at bed
time.
Well, looking at the 10 steps I failed at: — # 6 nothing other than breast milk (
gave hungry baby formula b / c I was too tired and drugged
up to nurse more than 5 minutes)-- # 7 rooming in (being tired and drugged
up I actually wanted to sleep)-- # 9 no pacifiers (I would rather baby have the SIDS prevention and soothing that comes from sucking)-- # 4 initiate
breastfeeding within 30 minutes of birth (that C - section thing where they sliced my guts open interfered with that
timing)-- # 10 I was referred to the support group but sure as hell didn't go (because I deemed healing at home from my surgery more important than being browbeaten about how I was feeding my baby).
So, in the middle of the night they
gave him the colostrum and when I woke
up in the morning I
breastfed for the first
time so, he was you know, I went in there at 7 am after shift change and then he was less than 12 hours old when I
breastfed him.
If you have something in your medical history that might impact
breastfeeding,
give us a call an we can set -
up a
time to talk it through.
Get advice on how to wean, when to know if it's
time to start weaning, and how to address problems that might be pressuring you to
give up breastfeeding.
No matter how many
times I wanted to
give up on
breastfeeding in the beginning he would encourage me to hang in there.
At the
time I had no idea it was possible to restart
breastfeeding once you had
given up.
Ruth excels at sleep relief,
giving specific recommendations for safe sleep habits for you and your baby, how to
breastfeed through the night and how to set
up a comfortable environment for encouraging your baby to sleep for longer stretches at a
time.
I currently have breast thrush, the second
time in these 22 months, and even though it is so painful, it has never been comfortable, I refuse to
give up breastfeeding.
But trying part -
time nursing is an option for women that can't
breastfeed exclusively but don't want to
give it
up completely.
One of the nurses suggested we
give her a «top -
up» formula feed after the
breastfeeding just to ensure she gets what she needs — this worked for us for a little while but in the end we started using formula full -
time, I must admit I was somewhat disappointed but i know i did what i could and my daughter is thriving even though she isn't
breastfed.
For example, employers are required to accommodate
breastfeeding employees by
giving them reasonable unpaid break
time or by letting them use paid breaks or mealtimes to pump or express breast milk for a nursing child for
up to three years after delivery.
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