This idea is also the theme of the book «Last Child in the Woods,» which suggested that indoor lifestyle and more screen
time hurt children's attention spans.
Even though you may depend on this money, threatening to withhold parenting
time hurts your children.
Not exact matches
Because
children tend to get injured from
time to
time, it also doesn't
hurt to partner with a local doctor's office.
And one
time is too many in regard to anything that
hurts a
child.
With both adults working full
time and two small
children, I find our budget gets
hurt the worst based on poor planning and
timing issues.
For the longest
time, I thought the day was one big excuse for
children to
hurt each other.
If their
child's throwing shoulder or elbow starts to
hurt, that is a sign it is
time to get some rest.
We can't protect our
children all the
time, but when something does
hurt them, we can prevent it from happening again.
Be concise and clear with your explanation («we don't take things without asking, it
hurts people's feelings») and let your
child know exactly what you expect next
time and what the consequences will be if your expectations aren't met.
That is possible thanks to mesh that can make your home safe for a
child, but in the same
time not let it
hurt if it tries to run through the gate.
This is when you use a statement to explain to your
child that it is okay to be angry, but at the same
time, you know that hitting a person
hurts him / her and that is NOT okay.
Tell them that you understand that they must feel
hurt or disappointed that they're not getting the bonding
time with your
child that they desire.
I saw this in action when an older
child hurt my toddler at their house and her dad, angry, punished her with a
time - out.
I know the cries of a
hurt child, so unless I hear a
child in physical pain, there is
time to think.
Some TV
time each day shouldn't
hurt your
child — in moderation it can be fun for your
child.
What ever triggers the start of this - the result of this negative or painful experience is that the next
time the
child has the urge to poop, s / he delay going because s / he knows that it
hurts.
And what parent can resist wasting a perfectly good bandage the first
time her
child says her teddy got
hurt?
Every
time the
child feels
hurt, another drop goes into the cup. Then, that last drop, no matter how small, runs the cup over and the
child needs to have emotional release of all the
hurts.
When
child are involved in an accident they are ten
times more likely to be seriously
hurt than an adult is.
This may have been because of constipation or change in diet or it could be a fear of the toilet and / or flusing or simply delaying a bowel movement because they are too preoccupied with something else way more interesting.What ever trigger the start of this - the result of this negative or painful experience is that the next
time the
child has the urge to poop, s / he delay going because s / he knows that it
hurts.
Even though I am able to tell my
child that I love them, and even though I am able to hear them tell me that they love me, and even though we are able to spend precious
time with each other, my heart still
hurts every single day.
What ever triggered the start of this - the result of this negative or painful experience is that the next
time the
child has the urge to poop, s / he will delay going because s / he knows that it
hurts.
«At the very moment that you're functioning at a lower level is the exact moment you have to step up and not
hurt your
children, and people do that all the
time.»
Sometimes the
hurt child just needs some alone
time, and that's okay too.
Trying to prove that you can get up the most
times in the night, or that you can clean the house the fastest in an effort to outshine your partner will
hurt your relationship, as well as your
child.
Before that
time, certainly you can use a high chair to separate your
child from
hurting another
child or harming property, but they are much less capable of understanding that what they did had a consequence and you will be frustrated when they don't seem to «get it» even after many
time outs.
Don't offer food as a way to stop your baby from fussing, or as a soother for
times when your
child is scared or
hurt.
For many first
time parents, the fear of doing something wrong haunts them; their ultimate fears include accidentally
hurting the
child.
The world will
hurt, disappoint, and disillusion our
children through the years, no doubt, but the brief season of childhood is a
time to strengthen our
children, not weaken them, and true strength is forged in gentleness, guided by wisdom, and steeped in peace.
Tell your
child «Hitting
hurts... It was too hard for you with the other kids... we need some
time by ourselves to calm down.»
Use strategies like the barrel carry (described below) that will keep you and your
child from getting
hurt in your attempts to get her to
time - out.
Use
time - out if your
child does something dangerous or harmful like
hurting others, fails to follow a direction, or breaks a family rule.
Just understanding that what your
child is doing — wanting to cosleep, waking up at night, etc. — is normal is half the battle; the other half is trusting that by practicing Attachment Parenting, everything will turn out well, that you won't
hurt your
child in any way by cosleeping or night nursing, and that in
time, your
child will learn to fall and stay asleep on his own.
When the same feeling or behavior is triggered many
times in somewhat similar situations (like always hating to go to school or daycare, or always becoming aggressive if other
children crowd too close), it indicates that there's a big
hurt under the surface.
Sending our
children out into the world as adults with their needs met, with coping mechanisms in place for those
times when the stresses overwhelm them, and with the knowledge of a safe haven where comfort is always available when the world
hurts them is a powerful way to change the world for the better.
It might be that our
child falls down, and has a big cry over what looks like a small
hurt, because the are actually not just crying about the present moment, but releasing some feelings from past upsets that they didn't cry about at the
time.
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Hurt?
At the same
time, though, know that it's never OK for
children to
hurt others with their actions, no matter what they're going through.
Give your
child a
time out To use Time Out when a child acts out aggressively, immediately and gently take the child by the shoulders, look him in the eye and say, «No hurting others, time out.&ra
time out To use
Time Out when a child acts out aggressively, immediately and gently take the child by the shoulders, look him in the eye and say, «No hurting others, time out.&ra
Time Out when a
child acts out aggressively, immediately and gently take the
child by the shoulders, look him in the eye and say, «No
hurting others,
time out.&ra
time out.»
While it never
hurts to start early learning activities while your baby is in the fetus stage, more
time should be spent on teaching your
child once he becomes responsive to activities around him which begins around 12 weeks after birth.
You will be so frustrated at
times that you may purposefully
hurt your
child with unkind words, a spank on the bottom or ignoring their demands.
While most days my job as nurse brings out lots of happy and life affirming moments, there are unfortunate
times when I see
children that are sick,
hurting, and very unwell.
Another benefit to unstructured play is that parents aren't there to «rescue» a
child any
time he or she gets his feelings
hurt.
I'm protective of my
children, and my horses.I've been
hurt a few to many
times and i don't mess around with control freaks..
Hurt has worked with Von Trier before, on Dogville, which Melancholia superficially resembles at this point in terms of its large cast of recognisable names and faces (Von Trier called keeping them all in check «like a
children's nursery, only twenty
times worse!»).
«I was also conscious of the dangers for
children online, and I wanted to ensure that kids had a great
time on the Net, rather than being
hurt.»
He is the author of The Vulnerable
Child: What Really
Hurts America's
Children and What We Can Do About It (Addison - Wesley, 1996), named by the American School Board Journal as one of the top 10 education books of all
time.
Deporting Parents
Hurts Kids New York
Times, April 20, 2012 «Research by the Urban Institute and others reveals the deep and irreversible harm that parental deportation causes in the lives of their
children.
At the same
time, more rigid benchmarks could
hurt an otherwise solid teacher if even one
child fell short.
Must reads this morning — The New York
Times editorial on the NAACP's call to ban charter school expansion, saying it would
hurt children stuck in broken public schools.