It is normal for everyone involved in a separation to go through
a time of grieving.
In my work as a relationship therapist, I see individual therapy clients who struggle with breakups and heartache regularly, and refocusing their energy on the lessons and potential growth during
this time of grieving can be a particularly effective way to grow and learn from the experience.
While often the end of a relationships is a time marked by grief, sadness, and regret, it can also be a time of discovery, learning, and maybe even a sense of liberation.In my work as a relationship therapist, I see individual therapy clients who struggle with breakups and heartache regularly, and refocusing their energy on the lessons and potential growth during
this time of grieving can be a particularly effective way to grow and learn from the experience.
You want them to come together for
a time of grieving, healing, and love.
Student loan debt is the worst debt to have, and it can be a huge burden to parents, especially in
the time of grieving.
This is a tragic and sudden loss and we ask that you respect our privacy during
this time of grieving.
«It seems everything hurts during
times of grieving.
Not exact matches
«There have been
times when I've had a really busy week and a lot has been going on and I'll sit down on the cushion and then I'll just start crying and I'll realize that I'm so sad about this one thing, but I had no space to
grieve, no space to think about it; I was zipping from one thing to the other all week,» says Pennell, who has studied at Insight Meditation Society, one
of the top meditation centers in the country.
I've had a lot
of time since then to
grieve and reflect on the beauty as well as the fragility
of life.
Uber Technologies Inc's embattled Chief Executive Travis Kalanick told employees in an email on Tuesday that he will take
time away from the company he helped to found, citing the need to
grieve for his recently deceased mother, according to a copy
of the memo seen by Reuters.
«Recent events have brought home for me that people are more important than work, and that I need to take some
time off
of the day - to - day to
grieve my mother, whom I buried on Friday, to reflect, to work on myself, and to focus on building out a world - class leadership team,» Kalanick wrote in the email, obtained first by Recode.
At the
time, Agriculture Minister Lana Popham said in a Facebook post that the approval was the most difficult decision
of her career and she was «
grieving the loss
of agricultural land in the flood zone
of Site C.»
In February
of this year, Facebook (fb) expanded its employee benefits to include 20 days
of paid leave to
grieve the loss
of an immediate family member and up to six weeks
of paid
time to take care
of sick relatives.
George R.R. Martin is known as a bloodthirsty writer, lopping the heads off your favorite A Song
of Ice and Fire characters (sometimes quite literally) with a reckless abandon that barely gives you
time to
grieve before the next blood - spattered literary massacre.
His attorneys have argued that this is a malicious lawsuit meant to slander him, brought by a firm that manipulated Kalanick at a
time when he was
grieving the death
of his mother.
Travis Kalanick, the CEO and cofounder
of Uber, told staff Tuesday he will take
time off in order to
grieve for his mother, who recently died in a tragic boating accident.
State Attorney Michael J. Satz said Saturday that this «certainly is the type
of case the death penalty was designed for,» but now is the
time «to let the families
grieve and bury their children and loved ones.»
The selfy with a smile seems inappropriate, like going to a funeral and you are all smiles because
of people you have not seen in a long
time and not cosidering other people are
grieving or still
grieving.
Apparently the next season takes place nine months after his wife's death, just enough
time for him to finish
grieving and fall into the arms
of Remini.
So, as we drove the 13 hours to where the funeral would be held, and as I watched the family and their loved - ones
grieve, unsure
of my role in a
time like that, I kept asking myself, «What good things do people do for me as I
grieve?»
Well, well... I know that two wrongs don't make a right, but I think in this case there should be an exception... Calling on all
of those
grieving family members and friends
of all those that this group decided to picket their funerals... Now is the
time to come together and give this lowlife and his followers a dose
of reality.
I have finally come to grips with the fact that church work will not be a significant part
of my life in this location — a profoundly discouraging conclusion, because there's so little else to do in this town, and I can not move away any
time soon — but not before going through a prolonged (and continuing)
grieving process for the loss
of something I loved that had been a part
of my life for so long.
One
of the most paralyzing parts
of heartbreak comes when people don't take the
time to
grieve.
Evil and wickedness «every inclination
of the thoughts
of man's heart was evil all the
time» How bad was it — «God
grieved it was painful».
It's OK to
grieve the lost
time, instead
of masking it with Christian platitudes.
And it shall come to pass at that
time that the treasuries will be opened in which is preserved the number
of the souls
of the righteous, and they shall come forth, and a multitude
of souls shall be seen together in one assemblage
of one thought, and the first shall rejoice and the last shall not be
grieved.
Hard conversations are coming, perhaps legislation, around gun control, about hatred, racism, religion, about our culture's glorification
of violence, our nationalism, and the divisions between us, yes, those conversations need to happen, but not just now: now is the
time for
grieving, now is the
time for loving, for burying, for mourning with those who mourn, for gathering humanity together, and for compassion.
That is why Paul, the Jewish Christian, can certainly deplore the Jewish No, and
grieve over his own people (9:2 - 5), yet at the same
time he can also praise the divine Yes which manifests itself out
of this No: «Their failure means riches for the world» (11: 12), «their rejection is the world's reconciliation» (11: 15).
I've known husbands whose wives were dying and who had already finished
grieving by the
time their spouses actually died, leaving confused children in the wake
of a hasty new marriages.
Strikingly, Vanier calls attention to both the deep communion that Jesus offers us and Jesus» own vulnerability when he
grieves for his dead friend Lazarus (who Vanier suggests may have had a learning disability since unusually for the
time he lived with his two sisters), and when Jesus is personally wounded by broken communion and the betrayal
of Judas.
And at this climax, Lamentations embraces words that have continued to bring incalculable solace to persons in all branches
of biblical faith in all
time: Yahweh will not cast off for ever, but, though he cause grief, he will have compassion according to the abundance
of his steadfast love (hesed); for he does not willingly afflict or
grieve the sons
of men.
8 The Israelites
grieved for Moses in the plains
of Moab thirty days, until the
time of weeping and mourning was over.»
I am sure some
of the victims family's who are left to
grieve have found comfort in their belief's, so I think it's kind
of mean to knock their beliefs in a
time of tragedy.
I always have a hard
time with seasonal transitions (and life transitions in general)-- call me a sensitive soul but I kind
of have to
grieve what we're losing (long, warm summer days) before I can totally embrace what is coming.
Unfortunately, going by the tiny fraction
of fans that protested in the stadium on tuesday, it seems to me that those who buy tickets to go to watch are more interested in enjoying a recreational
time, possibly taking the missus or the kids out and generally incorporating the matches into the fun and excitement
of their lifestyle to be genuinely
grieved by the team's shoddy performances.
But
grieving requires
time, and only minutes before, they had watched dreams — a SWAC title, a series lead against their biggest rival — die inches short
of the end zone.
The Boss said: «First
of all, no matter how much you try to lift the players, they need
time for
grieving.
«First
of all, no matter how much you try to lift the players, they need
time for
grieving.
This was especially important to me as I
grieved the loss
of the bonding
time I thought we would both enjoy during nursing sessions.
In honor
of Pregnancy and Infant Loss Remembrance Day, Bear suggests on her website that
grieving parents light a candle at 7 p.m. in their respective
time zones to create a wave
of light around the world in memory
of babies lost to pregnancy and infant loss.
And just to help you get the picture, based on YOUR info (stolen bits and pieces
of stories from
grieving families) that means that circ is actually 16
TIMES more dangerous for a baby than HOME BIRTH.
«We
grieved a lot
of our relationship so long ago, this is just sort
of marking the
time,» Valerie said.
If you need to take
time to
grieve the loss
of the breastfeeding experience, that's OK.
That just took some
time to come to terms and
grieve the loss
of the «real breastfeeding relationship or natural» I don't know what people used to described it.
And for many
of you, you'll
grieve for the
time you spent cosleeping, because it is so wonderful to have that closeness at night and to stretch the
time you have with your child around the clock, instead
of trying to fit it in during just the daytime hours when we have other tasks or perhaps work outside the home.
We often spend
time with the entire family to help them learn how to work together to strengthen emotional bonds, improve communication or perhaps
grieve the loss
of a loved one.
I don't believe the emotions felt by mothers who don't breastfeed or who wean early are as simple as «guilt»: when we really examine mothers» feelings about things gone wrong, it is rarely guilt that they are expressing, especially about not breastfeeding or not breastfeeding as long or as completely as they would have liked to: well informed mothers who reach for the bottle after a struggle with breastfeeding know they have done the best they could with the resources they had at the
time (health, energy, knowledge, support)-- these mothers may feel deeply sad and disappointed, they may be
grieving, but guilt isn't an appropriate label for these overwhelming feelings
of loss for themselves and their babies.
To this day, I still
grieve for that period
of time lost.
And I feel them when, last month, celebrating fifteen years
of marriage, I experienced a love there between my husband and I, stronger in spite
of (or maybe even because
of) the
times we pushed away from one another,
grieving so much loss together but more often, separately.
The real hard facts are that we have the rest
of our lives to
grieve for the children we will never hold again, but we only have a very small window in
time to grow this new life and allow ourselves to be swallowed up in new motherhood once again.