Regarding the question on how to move forward from the
uncomfortable place we find ourselves in, I keep thinking about Feynman's first principle: «you must not fool yourself», which seems like an impossible task for any human being to achieve, scientists included.
When a young person who believes they lack value and believes that the world is a frightening
place encounters caregivers who extend unconditional positive
regard, they may find this to be
uncomfortable and / or unbelievable.